• who you were ain’t who you are now


  • you don’t have to keep living the way you’re living.

    this is a pivotal moment, fam; one where your life can completely change for the better.

    doesn’t matter what happened last year, yesterday, or five minutes ago —

    none of that can keep you from progressing forward in your life, fam.

    let’s be clear here: consequences exist + the residual effects of them are real.

    however, your commitment to change can outshine + outlast them all.

    people who remember past you will remind you of who you used to be.

    it’s important that you realize that ain’t you anymore + that you are allowed to change + move different —

    who you were ain’t who you are now.


    life is filled with endless possibilities giving you so much wiggle room in terms of which direction you decide to go, what choices you’ll make, which actions you’ll take.

    every meaningful path won’t be easy + every seemingly “easy” path ain’t for you.

    struggle + hardship are a part of life, not to be celebrated, but also not to be shunned or wished away — you can do hard shit, fam.

    the best news you can hear today is that it’s your birthright to choose — 

    no one can stop you from making decisions for yourself + right now is the perfect opportunity to do it.

    be you, be dope!
    Phylicia Sadsarin
    Mindset Coach

    journal prompt(s) for today:  

    what is something you’ve been too afraid to do that would bring you closer to your dream life?


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