i’m not here to tell you what you think, fam.
i trust you enough to know that you are fully capable of making decisions that best suit your life.
i can provide facts, though.
yes, actual factual — no bullshit!
one fact i’m gonna share with you is that you can move mountains.
when you not only decide you’re going to do something, but you actually do it, you’re fuckin’ unstoppable!
here’s another one: it’s not that you can’t, it’s that you won’t.
can’t + won’t don’t mean the same thing, but i believe you when you say either one.
you saying you can’t sets you up for the won’t.
before you retort with can’t, think about this:
do you want to participate in or learn more about whatever it is?
if so, there are so many other words +/or phrases you can use instead of can’t:
i’m currently unable to… however, i can…
at this moment, i’m not sure how. in the meantime, can i…?
i’d like to learn more about that! can you teach me?
this is beyond my skill set, but i can connect you with…
i mean, you can use those if you want to take a limitless stance in life —
because anything you need is right at your fingertips.
you can ask.
you can learn.
you can teach.
you can connect.
you can share.
yea, you can make life different for yourself + others by sharing what you can do.
the questions are this:
do you think you can do it?
are you willing to do that?
better yet, are you doing that?
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what’s something you’ve recently told yourself you can’t do?
how can you flip that into an “i can…” statement?
take it one step further + turn it into an “i am…” statement.