there’s a rigidity that accompanies having complete control over your life.
life always happens your way —
no deviations from “the plan”,
no unexpected or pleasant surprises,
no need to change at all.
when shit always goes your way, what do you need problem solving skills for?
why do you need to innovate, invent, or create?
you’ve solved every single problem + it’s likely you aren’t creating “problems” for the sake of flexin’ those skills.
beyond your limited scope of knowledge, there’s nothing new for you to do.
where’s the excitement? the spontaneity? the randomness?
do you plan a joke to laugh at, too? 🤔
you’ve got the life all planned out, but when do you live, *|FNAME|*?
micromanaging life will have you out here bored as hell, sis.
let go + live.
control the shit that matters like your attitude + your choices, + let the rest be what it’s gone be.
it’s way more fulfilling when you surrender to all of life’s joys + splendor rather than thinkin’ you know how to do any of that shit.
plus, the peace you get from not having to plan everything to a “T” is unmatched.
who wants to laugh at a planned joke, anyway?
honestly, the shit sounds wack! 🤣
life doesn’t always have to go your way + there’s beauty in understanding that your way isn’t always the best way.
cause life in its infinite possibilities has saved you a few dollars, a few heartaches, + when you think about it, a whole lot of precious time.
thank life for that.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
why do you want to control your life? what are you afraid of?