what’s the harm in allowing life to play out how it’s gonna play out?
i mean sure, you may not like the outcome + want to avoid it at all costs,
but are you not tired of fighting + actively avoiding situations for the sake of saving face?
disappointment is a part of life.
life is filled with ups, downs, laughs, cries, + everything in between…
you will feel the impact of what happened + experience what it feels like to face what you’ve been wanting to avoid.
today, remember feelings are fleeting, + joy + peace are eternal.
you can simultaneously have peace in your heart + say/do what makes you feel uncomfortable.
you can experience joy in your life + feel sad that you have to live life without someone you once considered special.
so don’t hold back, don’t keep procrastinating, + decide today to do what you’ve been constantly putting off:
have that much needed conversation
say “no”
ask for help
choose what’s best for you
walk away from what no longer serves you
speak up for yourself
people pleasing is exhausting + might i add unnecessary work, fam.
walking on eggshells, downplaying who you are, feeling unwell + drained because you’re holding so much in that needs an escape — that ends today.
do what you know must be done today.
there’s on guarantee you won’t feel a way about what goes down; however, there is a guarantee that you can you face whatever comes your way when you believe that you can.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what is the worse that you feel could happen? write out all the possible things you feel can go “wrong” when you do what you’ve been avoiding.
now, answer this: in what ways can you use what goes “wrong” to your advantage? if unclear on what you can do with lemons, switch gears: what can go “right”? write it down, let all of it go — the “right” + the “wrong”, + ask God, the universe — whatever you believe — to help you accept what happens as it is.