when you’re ready to undergo a change in your life, what’s the first thing you must do?
before change occurs, you must accept what is happening for what it is.
until we accept life as it is, we will remain stagnant + seemingly stuck.
the more we deny ourselves a dose of reality, the more nothing will change; dreams will remain dreams + wishes will remain wishes.
now don’t get it twisted, now — acceptance + approval are totally different.
one doesn’t have to approve of something to accept that it is what it is.
as matter of fact, it’s because of our disapproval that real change occurs because we’ve decided we no longer want to experience life in that way.
denying yourself the opportunity to pinpoint what you disapprove of in your life will keep you stuck in a cycle of constantly experiencing the same thing over + over again.
today, accept that here is where you must start to get to where you want you desire to be.
okay, so you know the destination, but what good is it if you aren’t sure where you’re starting?
here + now, come to terms that in this moment, life is what life is; that this is the reality of your circumstances + situation, fam.
your acceptance is the key to starting over + creating the changes you wish to see in your life.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what are you having a difficult time accepting right now? do you want this situation to remain the same? if not, what is holding you back from accepting it so that you can truly change it?