life goes according to your plan

imagine if your whole life played out according to your script.

think about all the plans you made for yourself over the years coming into fruition, all the promises you made have come true, + all the declarations you made over your life are now your reality —

(yes, even that relationship with your first love is still a “thing”). 😩

surprisingly, everything going our way can be to our detriment, fam.

there are times in our lives where we feel we are experts in an area only to later look back + see that we had no idea what the hell we were thinking in the moment!

today, accept that our plans for our lives are not always what we truly want to experience.

our perspectives are limited + sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees.

yes, we can trust ourselves to know what’s best for ourselves in the moment + that’s fantastic.

at the same time, what we believe is best for us may not actually be what’s best for us.

life is all about learning, fam.

how boring is it knowing exactly how your life pans out, never having to use your problem solving skills because your life lacks challenge, depth, + the element of surprise.

getting your way won’t make you happy (that’s an inside job, btw).

accept the challenges that life brings + show yourself just how creative you truly are. 

be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach

journal prompt(s) for today:  

recall a time when life didn’t go according to plan, but instead gave you something greater than you imagined. now, on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest, what level of content would you be if you always got your way? explain your answer.