Author: Phylicia

fear can have you believing that things cannot + will not get better. hope can have you believing that in time, all things can turn around + that all things are working for your highest good. fear can have you worrying about situations + circumstances you cannot control.hope can have you believing that no matter…… Continue reading what fear does that hope could never

there is nothing more painful than the pain that comes from regret. reflecting on the times when you didn’t take action can cause a great deal of hurt + agony, + riddle us with unnecessary stress + worry. fam, hear this + hear this well:there is nothing you could have done then that you cannot…… Continue reading the pain can last you a lifetime

when all is well, remember it took some effort to make that happen. when things are dismal, remember it takes some effort to turn that situation around. today, give effort its props, fam.when you use your efforts intentionally + with purpose, so much progress can happen in your life. sitting around complaining, wishing, hoping, + worrying…… Continue reading underestimating the value of your effort

you ain’t gotta give up your peace for anything. not work, not success, not relationships, — not nothing! think, for a moment, how much you can do when you’re in a peaceful state of being versus a chaotic, confused, or conflicted state being.when you’re peaceful, your decision making skills are backed in clarity + love. when operating…… Continue reading saving a seat on the struggle bus

you don’t have what you desire yet not because you don’t want it, fam. it’s also not because you haven’t been taking steps to get it. matter of fact, you are undeniably passionate about it + you’ve been doing all of the things necessary to make it your reality.still, there is one thing that is lacking on your part. today,…… Continue reading oh, this is better than best!

you are more than the logical thinking that overtakes your brain when you’re confronted with the unknown or when you’re attempting to make sense of it all. you are more than the anxiety riddled thoughts that run rampant + haunt you when you’re comparing your life to someone else’s, or when you’re worried about how others may perceive you…… Continue reading are you who you think you are?

you’ve officially made it to today! this day isn’t happening because of what you didn’t do, it’s happening because of what you have already done. you’ve worked through many challenges,you’ve accomplished,  you’ve succeeded, + you’ve overcome your fair share of obstacles. today, continue carrying out your legacy of making shit happen!don’t suck your teeth or…… Continue reading congrats — you’ve officially made it!

planning has its place, watching + learning does as well, but nothing beats going out there + doing it. thinking about it too long can cause you analysis paralysis –you know, where you think about something with so much depth that you start overthinking + before you know it, you’re talking yourself out of taking…… Continue reading the curious case of analysis paralysis