you think no one sees you, but people notice

if you can sit in silence + shrink yourself, you can speak boldly in front of a crowd. it sounds… odd, + doesn’t seem to correlate; however, one definitely does support the other. here’s the thing, fam:we think that by not drawing attention to ourselves that we are not drawing attention to ourselves. that’s simply not the…… Continue reading you think no one sees you, but people notice

you will understand this one day, fam

one day, instead of beating yourself up about something you wish to change about yourself, you’ll approach yourself with grace. one day, you’ll honor that you’re still learning + it’s okay to not have an answer. one day, you’ll be kinder to yourself during the learning process. one day, you’ll offer acceptance rather than passing judgement.…… Continue reading you will understand this one day, fam

does it actually require your attention to the matter?

every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you, fam *for the people in the back* 🗣️ every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you.people will say any + every thing! they will also do wtf they wanna do whenever they wanna do it + catch this –they will likely…… Continue reading does it actually require your attention to the matter?

is fraternizing with the big wigs a wealth flex?

for far too long, as a society, we’ve held onto this concept that we gain access to more possibilities the higher the social ladder we climb. the more we network with the higher ups,the more education we receive,the higher we are positioned in our career,the more money we make,+the better health we’re in typically holds the highest esteem…… Continue reading is fraternizing with the big wigs a wealth flex?

fresh eyes with a new (to you) view

too often we beg + plead for others to see life our way, trying to convince them that our way is a viable way of life. instead of investing your energy into proving how dope your perspective is, do this instead: see, understand, + accept other people’s perspectives.understanding is the bridge that connects your perception of life…… Continue reading fresh eyes with a new (to you) view

shattering those glass ceilings one challenge at a time

the importance of a challenge lies in its ability to help us shatter glass ceilings. we don’t have know something is truly limiting until we are tasked to work within its confines. what we come to find out is that the most challenging part isn’t the task itself,it’s figuring out how to either work within the…… Continue reading shattering those glass ceilings one challenge at a time

turning your challenges into light work

what criteria does something need to have to be labeled as “easy”? what does something need to possess in order to be labeled as “difficult”? quite frankly, both easy + difficult are subjective + based on one’s perception.therefore, when you truly think about it, nothing is easy or difficult — everything simply is. what we label is a message we send to our brains about how to perceive…… Continue reading turning your challenges into light work

know that it’s okay to feel a way about it

when you have a feelin’ something just ain’t right, or when your spirit feels unsettled + uneasy, simply do this: acknowledge that feeling. that’s where you start, fam.your initial feelings aren’t to be dismissed + denied, they are to be acknowledged + accepted. feelings relay messages.you find out so much about yourself when you listen to your…… Continue reading know that it’s okay to feel a way about it