they didn’t make you feel that way, fam

that situation didn’t frustrate you, neither did that person, nor did that task. you are frustrated because you’re choosing to experience frustration in the moment, fam.it’s not a dig at all — frustration is a feeling + feelings are not facts. feelings are feedback.they lend an inside scoop as to what you’ve got going inside in the…… Continue reading they didn’t make you feel that way, fam

the phenomenon that will change how you think

try this experiment: today, when you hear a question, don’t bother answering it or rationalizing it.in fact, you’d be hard pressed to find someone who sits on a question, ignores it completely, + doesn’t even begin to formalize an answer to it.due to the phenomenon known as “instinctive elaboration”, your brain is wired to answer a question when…… Continue reading the phenomenon that will change how you think

the blame isn’t on the situation, fam

when something isn’t working out for you, don’t give it more power by encouraging its efforts. change the narrative + you’ll change your life, fam. see, it’s not the circumstance or situation that’s keeping you stagnant.what’s happening is your limited perspective + lack of action that doesn’t allow for your progression. complaining about a thing doesn’t…… Continue reading the blame isn’t on the situation, fam