every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you, fam
*for the people in the back* 🗣️
every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you.
people will say any + every thing!
they will also do wtf they wanna do whenever they wanna do it + catch this —
they will likely do something in their lives in which you don’t approve! *audible gasp while fake clinching pearls*
the nerve of them going against your personal beliefs + morals, right?
wrong.
because what others do is a reflection of their own choices.
+ if we’re being honest, most times what they do does little to effect you, so why you worried about that shit anyway?
today, let people do what they gone do.
you are not required to laugh at a crude or crass joke.
you are not required to comment on their lunch choices.
you are not required to spill or sip the tea with them.
you are not required to make their urgency your emergency.
you are not required to respond to them when they say some off the wall shit.
simply wish them well + let them be on their way.
whether you approve their choices or not, they are going to have the day that they deserve without your commentary.
mind the business that pays you.
your life is full of rich experiences + abundance overflows for you, fam.
you are wealthy, healthy, + a walking example of equanimity.
let people talk, let people do, + most importantly accept that they are doing their best in that moment.
no response is a response.
let the way you carry yourself speak louder than your words.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
| what recent event or comment made you feel an immediate urge to reply, fix, or defend yourself, + did it actually deserve your energy? |
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