your quest for perfection will have you on a permanent + perpetual pause.
but the fear, P. i need to know how to start when the fear is paralyzing!
start.
there’s no special way to start, not a formality you’ll go through to get through.
start with purpose on purpose + embrace the imperfect.
you’ll have to be okay with + accept that you’ll be making mistakes. 🤷🏾♀️
stumble throughout the course, fumble the ball, + miss the shots.
the only way you’ll get used to handling the ball is by playing the game.
put yourself out there, fam.
no matter if you fuck up or forge ahead without a hiccup, you are taking way more action than if you’re sitting on the sidelines criticizing + critiquing everyone else’s moves.
perfectionism is pretend, okay?
what’s real is you figuring it out + learning how to pivot along the way.
that’s how you learn,
that’s how you grow,
+ that’s how you live life on your own terms —
by doing you unapologetically + without the expectation to show up perfect.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
time doesn’t mean a damn thing, so fuck the “new year” —
what are you starting now?
what actions are you taking today to continue yourself down the path of living life on your own terms?