it’s no use wanting to be everything to everyone.
you are who you are — nothing more, nothing less — + who you are right now is enough.
taking yourself through the psychological abuse of insulting + criticizing who you are is unkind.
what do you gain by constantly being on your own ass + giving yourself the blues?
real talk, where you are right now is the best place you can be.
here is where all the necessary revelations occur, where paramount decisions are made, + where what you’re looking for is found.
this is a powerful place to be right now.
the power lies in your choices; in your ability to take action — something you can decide to do at any time today!
who cares about who you could, should or would have been?
you aren’t those things, rather you are who you are.
this is you now, today.
love on this version of yourself while you can.
you’re ever-evolving, ever-changing.
blink fast enough + this version vanishes right before your eyes without the loving kindness + grace it deserves.
don’t focus on what you think may disqualify you from being dope.
there isn’t one valid reason you can name because you’re dope as you are.
when it’s beyond your control to change your circumstances, change your mindset.
is there anything fundamentally harmful in being who you are, where you are, as you are right now?
now is the time to wield your power of choice + switch up how you choose to see + interact with yourself in this moment.
enjoy this moment.
at this point, how you got here is irrelevant.
what you decide to do from here on out is all that matters, sis.
if you’re alive + reading this, then understand that today nothing can stop you from living the lifestyle you most desire except for you.
who you are now is who you need to believe in + trust to make that happen for you.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
big up yourself!
list 10 character traits that you love most about yourself.