seeing of the successes of others can be trigging to many.
one may see it + get a salty.
on the other hand, someone else may see it + get inspired.
what do you see + feel when others are successful?
do you get jealous + attempt to diminish their accomplishments?
do you get encouraged to try your hand at accomplishing your own goals?
what someone else does or does not do doesn’t need a critique by you.
what they choose to accomplish in their own lives is their personal choice.
in no way, shape, or form is an indication of what you can accomplish nor will it diminish your accomplishments.
today, focus on creating your own success.
first, define what you deem successful —
what i value may not be what you value.
next, realize that, like you, we all get to define own success.
our successes may not look alike; however, that doesn’t mean they aren’t equally valuable to our lives.
lastly, know that when one of us wins, we all win.
seeing that something is possible creates more possibilities in all of our lives, it opens us up to more opportunities, + is an inspirational catalyst for creating more successful moments.
you can be a hater or a congratulator — the choice is yours, fam.
regardless of how you feel about someone bringing long lasting value to this world, they are doing + accomplishing something awesome; something dope.
become curious, get inspired, + use your powers to create self-defined successes in your own life.
with your successes, you, too, can inspire others to succeed.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
| instead of getting triggered by another person’s success, ask yourself — what are some of my own goals i have been avoiding working toward? what steps am I taking today to work toward them? |