you’ve been looking everywhere for the answers except the one place where it resides:
inside of you.
but i can totally understand how you’ve overlooked it for so long.
society tells us that we must look outside ourselves for validation.
we are constantly told what to do,
what’s right,
what’s wrong,
how to dress for this + that,
how to show up + behave,
socially conditioned to perform for the acceptance of others.
well… what do you want, fam?
before you say it doesn’t matter, it does.
what you want matters + i want to hear it.
how do you want life to look for you?
what does living life on your own terms mean + look like to you?
close your eyes + visualize your dream life —
how it smells,
how it tastes,
the colors + the shapes,
what you hear, +
what you feel.
discern whether or not this is something you actually want or if you’ve been influenced to believe that this is the only way to the freedom you seek.
only you have the answer to this, fam + lemme tell you:
when you’re ready to make this life yours, it’s waiting for you to live it.
it’s gonna take more than belief, though…
you’ve gotta put this into action starting today.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what does what’s holding you back from making your dreams your reality? let’s talk about it.