Author: Phylicia

too much of a good thing, even when it’s considered healthy or “good”, can work to our detriment. it’s not about too far right or left, but finding equanimity.  when we’re hungry, we pile our plates full of food +/or load our carts with groceries, only to realize we can’t eat it all or we bought…… Continue reading having too much of a good thing is real

the same abundance you feel you deserve, is the same abundance others deserves as well. the same leniency + grace you want to receive,is the same leniency + grace you can offer others. there’s no exclusive club that limits you as being the only recipient of all things good + life changing.the universe. provides for…… Continue reading you ain’t the only one who feels this way

embrace whatever feels ‘new to you’ today + learn as if you have nothing in which to fall back. readily take in today’s new experiences with wonder, with excitement, + with curiosity. act as if what you’re learning right now is vital to your wellbeing + that all your previous successes are now obsolete.in this moment, you…… Continue reading our collective future requires you to do this one thing

maybe the debt is piling up, maybe the time seems scarce + every hour of every day is running together, maybe the plan you thought you were gonna have isn’t working out like you thought it would + you haven’t thought of what’s next, maybe the opportunity fell through + you’re confused about which way is up, maybe you’re doing everything…… Continue reading seeing beyond your current circumstances is not easy

failing is a vital part of fulfilling your dreams. if you aren’t failing, your dreams are too easy to accomplish. dream bigger, fam.release the fearful relationship you have with failure, get out there + try damnit! fail, flop, fold, + forge forward with fortitude. the mere fact that failure is present means that success is in the…… Continue reading fail, flop, fold, + then do this

looking back, you may wish you had started sooner, wished you had listened to your gut + followed your instincts, or  wished you had followed your heart + did that one thing that one time. it’s okay to have hopes + dreams, but hopes + dreams that you take no action to achieve are wishes waiting…… Continue reading you wished for it, now why do you want it?

what you’re looking for can be found within you, fam. healing your relationships begins with healing yourself, + you possess all that’s needed to get started on that journey. while many will say, phrases like “self love is all you need” or “love yourself”, being loved + appreciated outside of your own volition is also an integral part…… Continue reading building a strong connection with yourself helps you do this

you get out of life what you’re willing to put into life, fam. worrying about what you’ll get from an encounter doesn’t increase the abundance, it actually stifles the growth. let’s be real: when you put thought + care into whatever you’re doing, the reward is always there.you aren’t doing shit to simply do shit, you are intentional…… Continue reading do you believe you deserve more than what you’re receiving right now?