Author: Phylicia

first let me ask you this: do you have time to do the things you love to do? now, let me ask you this: in what ways are you using your time? if we don’t have time to do what we love, what are we living for, fam? you are not a robot — you…… Continue reading are you using your time to its fullest potential?

how do you know if you’re dreaming big, fam? there’s not one day that goes by without you making motion towards making it your reality. the moment you find yourself slacking + no longer motivated to go in the direction of your dreams is your moment of confirmation that your dream is too small for…… Continue reading the tell-tale sign that you’re dreaming big

pro tip: to reap the richest benefits in life, be kind as often as possible. first encounter with someone? kindly interact with them. need to provide feedback? kindly point out what needs to be done. have an attitude? experiencing frustration? getting annoyed? find a way to kindly communicate your thoughts + feelings. don’t have anything…… Continue reading release the serotonin, kill the pain, + reset your mood with this

nothing in life is free, fam. whatever you possess, whatever you have in your life, cost you. life be taxing like you owe it + it’s because you do. whatever you want + anything worth having requires you to put up something for it. there is a cost associated with having energy — it costs you your…… Continue reading life be taxing like you owe it + it’s because you do

“i can’t do this because…”  + “they won’t allow me to…” are excuses; barriers at best. we normalize so much in our lives that it becomes common practice; however, anything that limits your ability to be yourself  fully + completely or robs you of your birthright is not normal, nor does it need to be normalized. there are, in…… Continue reading just because it’s normal doesn’t make it right

you want life to be easy, or do you want your life to make a difference? this isn’t asking whether you want have a hard knock life or not, fam — quite the contrary.what this question poses is whether you want to stay comfortable or if you’re willing to move through uncomfortable situations to get to a…… Continue reading life can be easy + life can be different

sometimes, the door is slammed shut on purpose. the door isn’t always meant for you to go through it, fam. in reality, there door may be there to show you possibilities. perhaps it’s there to show you that though this is one way to get to where you want to be, this isn’t the only…… Continue reading the door is slammed shut on purpose, fam

in most instances, we only see what we expect to see. our minds + eyes are so trained to see what flows that it sometimes skips over what doesn’t belong +/or labels it as an anomaly. so then it leaves us to only see what we expect ourselves to see.this isn’t an issue being we…… Continue reading expect more + quit playing small, fam

the successes you experience today all have a connection to the past. from your actions of yesterday to the actions of your ancestors years + years ago, your achievements were meticulously handcrafted for this moment. without prior foresight from your previous self + others, nothing that you’ve accomplished today exists.that’s why it’s important to never…… Continue reading your ancestors are smiling right now, fam