Author: Phylicia

putting your problems off on someone else, blaming them for why you’re in the situation you’re in may feel good + justifiable in the moment; however, it does nothing to resolve the problem at hand. shifting blame isn’t how a problem is solved — solving the problem is how a problem is solved. so today i ask you: what do…… Continue reading this is what you are responsible for in your life

whatever you do today, know why you’re doing it. don’t do shit for the sake of doing shit, fam. move with intention + ease.even if the reason you’re moving is strictly “obedience”, know that you still chose to listen to instructions + chose to do something about your situation. intentionality requires a lot of thought + consideration.it…… Continue reading you’ve set the intention, now make a move

if you can sit in silence + shrink yourself, you can speak boldly in front of a crowd. it sounds… odd, + doesn’t seem to correlate; however, one definitely does support the other. here’s the thing, fam:we think that by not drawing attention to ourselves that we are not drawing attention to ourselves. that’s simply not the…… Continue reading you think no one sees you, but people notice

one day, instead of beating yourself up about something you wish to change about yourself, you’ll approach yourself with grace. one day, you’ll honor that you’re still learning + it’s okay to not have an answer. one day, you’ll be kinder to yourself during the learning process. one day, you’ll offer acceptance rather than passing judgement.…… Continue reading you will understand this one day, fam

every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you, fam *for the people in the back* 🗣️ every thing said or done to you doesn’t require a response from you.people will say any + every thing! they will also do wtf they wanna do whenever they wanna do it + catch this –they will likely…… Continue reading does it actually require your attention to the matter?

imagine experiencing a life with no problems whatsoever. everything in your life is running smoothly + every wish you ever had is instantly fulfilled. day in + day out, you sit still because there is no conflict to resolve, no issue to sort out, + no solution to seek. you no longer have to use your…… Continue reading all things exist because all things exist

for far too long, as a society, we’ve held onto this concept that we gain access to more possibilities the higher the social ladder we climb. the more we network with the higher ups,the more education we receive,the higher we are positioned in our career,the more money we make,+the better health we’re in typically holds the highest esteem…… Continue reading is fraternizing with the big wigs a wealth flex?

too often we beg + plead for others to see life our way, trying to convince them that our way is a viable way of life. instead of investing your energy into proving how dope your perspective is, do this instead: see, understand, + accept other people’s perspectives.understanding is the bridge that connects your perception of life…… Continue reading fresh eyes with a new (to you) view