Author: Phylicia

people may have opinions about what you do, but the person who talks you out of doing most of what you miss out on isn’t them, fam — it’s you. your mama can say what she wants about your situation –ya daddy, too. your siblings have their thoughts + your friends, coworkers, and colleagues are gonna say what they…… Continue reading your inner voice has something dope to say

“i don’t feel like it” is the biggest dream delayer, relationship killer,  momentum pauser, excuse making phrase there is. it’s a tricky phrase to use because on one hand your feelings are totally valid;on the other hand, your feelings are not facts. so how do we acknowledge how we feel without allowing our feelings to dictate…… Continue reading the biggest dream delayer

dreamers must do + doers must dream. having one without the other leads to a boring ass life.when your head is in the clouds is just as important as when your head is down + you’re locked in + focused on a task — in life we must experience both, fam.what is there to do without a dream?when…… Continue reading stop postponing life for perfection when you can do this

snail’s pace is still progress. snail’s pace is still progress. snail’s pace is still progress.snail’s pace is still progress. snail’s pace is still progress. does it need to be stated again, fam? don’t get caught up in moving fast — fast doesn’t mean a thing when it isn’t the direction you must go,  when you aren’t learning what…… Continue reading snail’s pace is still progress

what does freedom mean to you, fam? is it having more time? is it not having to face challenges? is it skating through life without a care in the world? when you don’t care about anything, you aren’t truly living. when you don’t have difficulties, you aren’t experiencing life to its fullest potential. when you…… Continue reading freedom as its defined by you

disappointment is not a permanent place. it a place we visit from time to time, yet it is not a place in which we must reside. to move away from disappointment, one must take steps in a different direction.when we find ourselves face to face with disappointment, it’s important that we remember moving away from…… Continue reading to go forward, one must take a step back

thinking can be outrageously gratifying.  it is imaginative, it starts conversations, +  it engages people in an alternative thought process by introducing new perspectives + experiences for them to consider. however, thinking alone does not get a task done.while generating ideas is an essential part of the process, thinking only serves as a gateway to intentional…… Continue reading thinking is critical, but this is right here is transformative

if you’re waiting to feel like doing it before you do it, then you’re wasting time. doing something doesn’t require you to feel like doing it — it simply needs to be done. the task doesn’t care if you hate it,it doesn’t care if you don’t think you’re ready for it, it doesn’t care if you…… Continue reading waiting until the right time is your biggest time waster