Author: Phylicia

is today’s experience more joyful than any day you’ve experienced in times past? it’s up to you. are you still finding purpose in those perceived setbacks? it’s up to you. are you quick to forgive, giving yourself + others grace + space to learn + grow? it’s up to you. are you locking in +…… Continue reading your next move? it’s up to you

it’s a new day, fam. tomorrow has officially arrived. you’ve told yourself time + time again that you’d do what must be done another time…well here we are — new dawn, new day. what’s holding you back from starting right now?what else do you think you’ll need to get going? check this out: if you decide to start today,…… Continue reading tomorrow has officially arrived + it’s a new day

yesterday is done. gone.ain’t shit you can do about what happened in the past, fam. however, there is something you can do about what happens in the future.no, you can’t skip through time + determine what happens next. the predictability of your future is dependent on what happens today.i mean, we can’t know for sure what is…… Continue reading life beyond your past decisions

what is something that you can say today that will has a lasting positive impact on the world? what is something you can do today that will serve as a gift the world can enjoy in perpetuity? whatever we say + do carries weight, fam.the impact of our words + actions live well beyond their initial intended…… Continue reading there’s strong ancestral ties in what we say + do

as Destiny’s Child says in their hit song, “free” —  “ain’t no feelin’ like being free! when your mind’s made up + your heart is in the right place, yea.” but what is freedom when you don’t practice what is necessary to maintain it?what does it mean to have “free will” when you don’t use…… Continue reading ain’t no feelin’ like being free!

achievement is coupled with focus for a reason.  side quests, distractions, + excuses all exist as a means to counter focused action making it a challenge to reach the level of success we so often want to enjoy.but you know what else will best suit us in our quest for success?flexibility, firmness, + fairness — all three (well, four including focus) are vital…… Continue reading monumental achievement exists when this arrives

you can freak out about what life gives you, or you can roll with it + make something of it. you always have choices you can make,options you can explore, + opportunities + possibilities you can sift through to see what aligns most with your heart’s desires + life direction. still, it’s important to note…… Continue reading it’s only an obstacle under limited perspective

you still out here taking life for granted, fam? you still don’t see how dope your life is + how good you have it? you still only focusing on what isn’t working for you right now vs. all the opportunities thrown your way?you still holding that grudge? still not acknowledging growth in all parties involved, especially…… Continue reading you still taking your life for granted

when you get the urge to act on your impulses, do this one thing first — pause. pray + ponder. proceed. impulses are awesome at pointing out what’s important to us in the moment.they are also very raw, authentic, + provide honest insight of our thoughts, our fears, + our feelings. however, because we process our impulses so…… Continue reading impulse control got a brand new facelift