Author: Phylicia

there’s always a chance for failure to do it’s thang because failure is always present in our lives. whether we see it or not, acknowledge it or ignore it, failure resides right beside success —  one’s frick + the other one’s frack,+ they are sitting beside one another waiting for their turn to be acknowledged. most times it’s easier to…… Continue reading one’s frick, one’s frack — they are one + the same

every thing going smoothly is not a prerequisite for every thing working out for you, fam. it’s fulfilling when things seamlessly fall into place. however, that’s for esthetics + convenience.life twists + it turns, + that’s okay! through the twists + turns life brings, it also brings out the very best in us.there would be less…… Continue reading this isn’t a prerequisite for living a fulfilling life

plainly + clearly declaring what you want is how one starts the process of purposeful pursuit. by speaking up + saying what you want to accomplish, you’ve put the intention out there to make your accomplishments into something very real for yourself. the most part important part of the process, though?making a move. having the intention is the appetizer…… Continue reading the most important part of the process

like many, there may be many things you wish you to accomplish before you take your final rest. there are goals you want to conquer, experiences you want to have, + memories you want to make. the best way to be sure that you can do these things is simple: use the time you have…… Continue reading say you fail + want to start over…

you wanna know what’s more important than winning + losing? your integrity. your ability to bounce back. your learning. your growth. your consistency. too often do we brag on our “wins” + feel ashamed when we “lose”.but you know — none of that shit really matters, fam. today, embrace the process.fail. fall. get back up again.…… Continue reading what’s more important than winning + losing

you ever met a wise person + wondered to yourself, “how did they get to be so wise?” for some, it’s years of lived experience that gives them the ability to impart wisdom.they’ve seen it all, been through it all, + know it all because they’ve lived it all. but we all know one youngin’ that has you…… Continue reading you are wise beyond your years

remember the phrase: “if you love something let it go. if it comes back, it’s yours. if it doesn’t, it wasn’t meant to be” vividly? vaguely? kinda sorta with a different variation?well, let’s test it out today. first, let go of everything you’re holding onto right now.this includes, but is not limited to: your dreamsyour…… Continue reading if you love something, let it go

you are the fun police. therefore, it is your responsibility to create + manage the fun in your life. i’ll say it again for the people in the back –okay, i won’t but you can read it again for extra emphasis because damn —  your lack of laughter + your heavy regulation of fun is…… Continue reading guess who’s the captain of the fun police