Author: Phylicia

those who suffer from procrastination know that it’s only one way to get cure it: one must take action, fam. procrastinating is a symptom of fear –fear of failure fear of success fear of the unknown — fear. to overcome fear, you already know what you’ve gotta do –do it scared, do it afraid, do it without knowing the outcome, do it.…… Continue reading the only way to cure procrastination

you’ve got your goals in mind, you’re moving fervently towards them, + then boom — you come face to face with a —dun dun dunnnnnnnn: distraction. usually, you have an easy time avoiding distractions.they typically come dressed up as themselves + you notice them right off the bat. this time, however, there is an opportunity in front…… Continue reading do distractions actually waste your time?

today, there will be a culmination of things that go right, things that work out, + things that pass the vibe check in your life — acknowledge them. you won’t make it through the day without at least one thing going right, fam.usually, it’s the things we overlook that make our days run smoothly. pay close attention to:the…… Continue reading feeling down? pay close attention to the following

when you’re laughing at, mocking, + or are gleefully delighting in the destruction of others, expect to receive that same energy in kind. 🔥 there’s no way you can put that shit out in the universe + expect it to forget that you ain’t enjoy it when it’s clear that in that moment, you did —  why…… Continue reading life will have the last laugh

seeing of the successes of others can be trigging to many. one may see it + get a salty. on the other hand, someone else may see it + get inspired. what do you see + feel when others are successful?do you get jealous + attempt to diminish their accomplishments?do you get encouraged to try your…… Continue reading you can either congratulate or hate

the reason you aren’t motivated to get it done because it doesn’t mean anything to you, fam. up the stakes by making meaning behind it. think of the must do task as making a lasting impression + impact upon those for which you love + care.it’s easier to get passionate about something that affects you, your family,…… Continue reading this is the reason you aren’t motivated

disagreeing with someone doesn’t negate a truth, fam. you may not like the words that are coming from their mouth, you may not like what they are doing, yet it doesn’t mean that they are blatantly lying or that they don’t know what they are doing. someone acting like a butthole to you doesn’t mean…… Continue reading but are they wrong, though?

the experience was beautiful while it lasted. it’s now time to let it go, fam. that’s not to say you won’t ever revisit the memories you have created of that experience,nor is it to discourage you from sharing your story with others. letting go is important because it allows you to make room for new experiences,…… Continue reading it’s now time to let it go, fam

when your why is big enough, you will move heaven + earth to make it happen. when your why is big enough, you will muster up all the strength you can to complete the task. when your why is big enough, you won’t allow excuses to stop you from doing what’s necessary + what’s best. when your why is big enough, you won’t…… Continue reading when your why is big enough