being successful isn’t what makes your life dope, fam

you don’t live a full + rich life because you have a lot of material possessions, fam.

full + rich life has absolutely nothing to do with the physical wealth you’ve acquired or the myriad of successes you can showcase in the physical realm.

in fact, full + rich living looks like:

  • focusing on the wealth of health
  • nourishing your body, mind, + spirit
  • being + remaining present
  • enjoying time with people you love + cherish
  • taking time to rest, rejuvenate, + relax
  • working diligently to accomplish your dreams
  • forgiving yourself of your past perceived mishaps
  • leaning into learning
  • changing your opinion when you gain new information
  • harnessing your energy + focusing on equanimity
  • showing up unapologetically as you

many of us mistake our worldly successes for “living a dope life”, but those type of successes are simply consequences of our choices, fam.

sometimes our choices don’t reflect our true successes.

outside looking in, it appears that we’ve failed miserably in life when we make “questionable” choices.

whole time, the fact that we’ve been able to change course + continue living our lives with grace despite what we’ve been through is the real success of it all.

outwardly showcasing how much you’ve accomplished over time is a very inaccurate way to live + lead a life of wealth + prosperity.

the optics are an attempt to materialize what’s actually happening within, yet we have to accept that sometimes people see us + sometimes they don’t.

today, embrace your inheritance of wealth.

you are a magnet for miracles, fortune favors you, you’re blessed beyond measure, + your value is undeniable.

now is time for you to experience all the abundance, the fullness, + the richness that life has to offer.

now is time to live.

be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach

journal prompt(s) for today:  

does appearing successful mean more to you than being successful? explain.