let bygones be bygones

you’ve seen yourself get through some of your darkest times, + now you can transform those moments into victorious memories — into the stories; into your testimony. you have been + currently are taking interest in your well-being, too.investing in yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, + spiritually, listening to your body, + taking its cues to rest + relax. beyond that,…… Continue reading let bygones be bygones

silent, but deadly

today, challenge yourself to do this small, yet mighty action: focus on how life smells. how do scents impact the way you move throughout your day?well, they have a helluva impact, actually. think about how you feel when you smell the following:the scent of your favorite desert baking 🤤 petrichor (you’ve gotta look this one…… Continue reading silent, but deadly

be free now

you ain’t gotta wait for approval, permission, or a sign-off — be free now. free yourself from rigid thinking + limiting beliefs — you are more than whatever you say you are, fam. more than a religious affiliation, more than a job title, + more than any checkmark beside a certain gender or ethnicity on a…… Continue reading be free now

getchu a lil’ taste

you ever see someone thoroughly enjoying an activity that it makes it you want do it, too? no gone lie, when i see my husband eating some delicious food i’m more than tempted to walk up + ask for a little somethin’ — uhhhh, *squints like i’m reading a drive-thru menu*  lemme get a taste of whatever…… Continue reading getchu a lil’ taste

test the waters

how often do you find yourself hesitating before making a decision? how likely are you to follow through with an action when you’ve decided you need more time to contemplate completing it? where do we draw the line between impulsiveness + trusting ourselves? what’s holding you back from taking action today? you decide how you’ll…… Continue reading test the waters

a huge disservice

there are real challenges that you face + then there are those that you’ve completely made up. listen, fam — you can overcome anything placed in your way! however, you’re doing yourself a huge disservice by adding imaginary obstacles to your pathway. those what if’s you keep asking? those are obstacles. how is that even possible? is an obstacle.…… Continue reading a huge disservice

the rhythm + flow

waiting until everything is “perfect” before you act will have you waiting forever. first of all, what we’ve been programmed to think + feel about perfect is unrealistic — that shit doesn’t exist, sis. so waiting for that will have you out there missing out on life. it’s like jumping into the game of double dutch. your…… Continue reading the rhythm + flow

nagging at your spirit

stop. before you do anything else, address what needs your attention today. you’ve put that task off long enough + have used that same excuse countless times. now’s the time to figure out what you actually wanna do about it. what’s holding you back from deciding whether you’ll follow through or fall back? explore why you’re avoiding…… Continue reading nagging at your spirit