quite frankly, it doesn’t matter

“i don’t know what the future will bring…” quite frankly, it doesn’t matter. take the pressure of knowing off yourself + figure out what you can offer yourself right now that brings you joy.”but, joy comes in the morning”… perhaps it does.  you can also choose to experience it right here, right now. promises like, “the sun…… Continue reading quite frankly, it doesn’t matter

room to freely move

life can be full of expectations — standards, rules, + protocols as we sometimes like to call them. we’ve all had our fair share of assigning them AND conforming to them. but at what point do expectations of ourselves + others limit our perspectives + our life experiences? are you living for the approval of others?are you expecting others…… Continue reading room to freely move

they are wearing you down

what is happening right this moment? not what could happen, not what should be happening, not what would happen if, what is actually happening? you carry around with you real concerns about your life, it’s true.those concerns have weight to them, though. they’re unreasonably heavy + take up prime mental real estate. they are wearing you down,…… Continue reading they are wearing you down

are you kidding?

the best way to build your confidence? do something today that you know you’ll crush. + don’t sit there stuck asking, “like what?” are you kidding? you do + have done some dope shit, *|FNAME|*. now’s the time to remember who TF you are! write down five things you do very well — go ahead! it’s…… Continue reading are you kidding?

is it worth the high?

you don’t need a quick fix, sis. that task doesn’t need to be done for the sake of being done, either. do that shit with purpose. your effort matters. your attention to detail matters.you doing your best matters. so let your work reflect that. unable to do everything right now? that’s cool.  do what you can do now…… Continue reading is it worth the high?

damn, when you put it like that…

you will face your fair share of challenges today. how will you behave in the face of adversity, fam? will you say, “fuck this” + give up?will you see the silver lining?will you use it as motivation? ’cause uh… you know you’ve slaughtered + slayed every challenge you’ve ever faced, right? whether you’ve recently overcome them or…… Continue reading damn, when you put it like that…