creating positive change in your life on purpose

how do you expect to have pearly whites when you neglect your teeth? you don’t brush them, you won’t floss, + you constantly are drinking teeth staining liquids. until you decide to put the effort into cleaning + maintaining your teeth, you will continue experiencing a dirty set of chops.  how do you expect to have…… Continue reading creating positive change in your life on purpose

the weight of the world is on your shoulders

truth be told, you’re carrying some heavy shit… unnecessarily at that. day in + day out you are weighing yourself down with all the guilt, shame, worry, anger, + distress you’re aimlessly carrying.no wonder your neck, your back, + every other part of you is screaming, “mercy, mercy me”!today, focus on packing light.bring with you today…… Continue reading the weight of the world is on your shoulders

now this is how you start the week!

get focused! this week’s focus word: cultivate get hype! let’s affirm the shit out of this week: affirmations for week 20 of 52 i am extremely skilled at cultivating + maintaining meaningful relationships with others. wanting different for myself requires a level of openness, a level of intentionality, + a level of persistency in pursuing new experiences.…… Continue reading now this is how you start the week!

life ain’t all bad, fam!

finding joy in each moment looks like: stubbing your toe + laughing at your reaction while hobbling around on one foot purchasing the incorrect ingredients + still making the dish work (you did that!) grieving the loss of a loved one + simultaneously smiling remembering them hunkering down in a cold blanket remembering it will keep you warm…… Continue reading life ain’t all bad, fam!

do you want validation, brownie points, or cracker jack prizes?

not everyone will like what you think, say, or do. likewise, you will not like what everyone thinks, says, or does. today, agree to disagree.accept that everyone has their own way of thinking + doing + give other’s space to maintain their own perspectives. you gain absolutely nothing arguing a point into the ground while attempting to convince someone to…… Continue reading do you want validation, brownie points, or cracker jack prizes?

are you truly grateful for all that you have?

gratitude on a smaller scale looks like rattling off what you’re thankful for in this moment. it resembles listing off what you have + expressing thanks for it. it parades as prayers of thanksgiving parroting what we already know we have… in short, most gratitude starts + stops at the “i’m grateful/thankful” phrase. today, challenge yourself to…… Continue reading are you truly grateful for all that you have?