now this is how you start the week!

get focused! this week’s focus word: obliterate get hype! let’s affirm the shit out of this week: affirmations for week 42 of 52 i acknowledge + accept all parts of me without judgement or shame. i deserve love, patience, understanding, + forgiveness. i give these freely to myself + to others. i make decisions with assurance, using all…… Continue reading now this is how you start the week!

the woes of not being present + missing important moments

don’t feel guilted into getting a moment back. okay, so the moment has passed + you were occupied with something else that you felt needed your attention in that moment… breathe + let it go.there are other moments that you can give your undivided attention to,  other moments that can be impactful in your life…… Continue reading the woes of not being present + missing important moments

it’s a hell of a drug

not liking something is not a good enough reason to not pursue it. it’s an excuse that many of us find ourselves using to justify why we won’t do what we know must be done.whether being on the giving or receiving end, think about the times this has applied to you + your life, fam:we won’t make the call that can…… Continue reading it’s a hell of a drug

much more than you give yourself credit for

you’ve said “i can’t…” for so long you’re out here believing it + behaving like it’s true. 🤨 what if today you decided that enough is enough? picture today as a day where no excuses part from your lips.imagine, for a moment, that you decide to take action rather than procrastinate today. see yourself asking questions, testing out theories,…… Continue reading much more than you give yourself credit for

reworking your approach to change your now

you’ve ruminated over what can go wrong, you’ve voiced your concerns to anyone who will listen, + you’ve even experienced restless nights because of the uncertainty of what’s to come. give life a chance to turn around for you.allow yourself to believe in the power of possibility. you’ve seen one side of the situation –…… Continue reading reworking your approach to change your now

this was very popular at one point in time

everyone + they mama can be doing it + guess what? doesn’t mean that you have to do it, too, fam. popularity doesn’t automatically make something right or wrong.tobacco based products were very popular at a point in time.  seemingly everyone was okay with huffin’ + puffin’ cigarettes or chewin’ + spittin’ tobacco!  fast forward to now, we are…… Continue reading this was very popular at one point in time