ditch the random acts of kindness + do this instead

you know that person you were rude to has hardships, too, right?

you understand that, like you, others have personal issues plaguing their minds they may have a hard time putting into words right now, yeah?

you do realize that stress + anxiety, worry + uncertainty, depression + sadness can manifest in any of our lives, correct?

today, practice intentional kindness.

outside of yourself + your own struggles, there are others who are going through struggles of their own.

yea, they may lash out + project, they may even blame you for their shortcomings —

accept that they are doing the best with what they have.

this isn’t a call to excuse shitty behavior, rather allow this call-in to serve as a invitation to not take what you see personally.

imagine giving someone a loving word, a kind gesture, or a simple smile instead of feeding them what they may think + what you may feel they deserve in that moment + how that can shift the energy in the atmosphere.

well P, i’m going through something, too + i didn’t sign up for all this understanding shit, anyway!

you aren’t the first or the last person who will have some shit happen to them today — they aren’t either.

but when does the tit for tat end, fam? 

who ends the generational trauma? 

who petitions for peace? 

who finally drops the attitude + doesn’t allow personal problems of others to dictate how, when, where, how, + why they’ll react?

when does it all stop?

if you’re experiencing a cold, harsh reality today, take it upon yourself to change your attitude, your experience, + your outlook on life.

an intentional act of kindness can change your world, their world, + our world, + trust: 

this world can benefit from all the kindness it can get, fam.

be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach

journal prompt(s) for today:  

do you believe an intentional act of kindness can change the world? why or why not?