good for the goose = good for the gander

wondering if you can is much different than determining whether or not it can be done.

daily, we’re out here wondering if we can: 

  • change the world
  • lift xx amount of weights
  • get along with that person
  • run a marathon
  • mend a broken heart
  • make $1 out of $.15
  • be a dope person —


but what if i told you that you no longer have to wonder?

you won’t know what you can do or what can be done until you take some action.

thankfully, you have choices: 

you can do nothing + keep wondering, living life in a realm of uncertainty 

or

you can take some action + see where life takes you.

what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

that means, if one person does it + we can all do it.

how amazing it is to know that there is a possibility that you can do it, too!

in this instance we aren’t comparing ourselves to others, rather we are honoring that they are doing something we, as a collective, once deemed impossible + using it as inspiration/knowingness that we can do it, too.

today, don’t wonder + worry about how you’ll look, what others may think, or how long it may take you to get it done —

give what you want to accomplish in life a shot + give it your best efforts.

success of failure, you did something — you learned.

your contributions to this world, however big or small, don’t go unnoticed.

stop wondering if you’re making an impact + make an impact.

there’s no need to waste anymore time wondering if you can–

you’ll know when you begin living your life;

you’ll know when you take action.

be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach

journal prompt(s) for today:  

what have you stopped wondering about that you’ve committed yourself to finding out today?