how much time are you going to waste today trying to control the uncontrollable?
because as much as you think you’re in control of anyone outside of yourself, you aren’t. 😐
when you want to change the world around you, you have to first lead by example.
since you are the catalyst for any + all change in this world, you have to do something different before you start looking to anyone else for change.
dare to be different + show others it can be done by doing it.
take your mindset out of “control mode” + tap into your influence.
true influence looks like motivation + inspiration.
it isn’t barking orders, demeaning others, or manipulating folks into compliance.
it looks like showing others how dope life is because you are vulnerable enough to share your experiences, brave enough to ask for help when you need it, + generous enough to offer your assistance without expecting anything in return.
sometimes others may hesitate to acknowledge your progress or get on board with what you’ve got going on, fam.
that doesn’t mean that the direction you’re moving in is wrong; everything in its own time, yea?
so, respect the timing of their lives while also acknowledging this truth:
you cannot stay doing the same shit you’ve been doing!
keep proving to yourself that you are capable of living life on your own terms regardless of what others may think, do, or say.
instead of leading with a controlling type of attitude, focus your energies on facilitating the changes you want to see in your life.
the control you have over your own actions + choices is paramount right now, sis.
ask yourself: to support the lifestyle shift i most desire, what is required of me right now?
live with purpose on purpose + by you doing that, you are already influencing the world to do the same.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what actions are necessary for you to take to support the lifestyle shift you most desire?
what shifts do you hope to see in the near future + what personal shifts are you making to support this?