you didn’t use to act like this

as concerning as what you have done in the past may be to people,

what you do now is what matters most.

people will judge you regardless of how you choose to act, fam.

act kind + they’ll have something to say.

act ornery + they’ll have something to say.

act on your own accord + they’ll have something to say.

act to their liking + still, someone will have something to say.

today, understand the importance of choosing to act different to evoke the change you wanna see.

start a new chapter in your life by moving forward with your life, ignoring the outside now, + living life that celebrates your highest self.

initially, when you change your behavior, others may begin attacking your character:

“i don’t know who they think they are…”

“just last week they were doing xyz….”

“this is all fake + phony. they don’t normally act like this…”

+ to some degree, they are correct —

you didn’t act like that then; however, now is a different story.

your life story has the potential to be one of the greatest stories ever written.

as disjointed as this transition may feel to you now, every thing will eventually flow together.

so never forget: changed behavior is the ultimate “fuck you” to your past actions + reactions.

today, do something different that speaks to + aligns with who you are at your core.

today, see + be the positive change you want to witness in your life.

be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach

journal prompt(s) for today:  

do you think your past defines who you are now? why or why not?