at this point, it doesn’t matter why you don’t take action.
sitting around trying to figure out the root cause doesn’t change the fact that you aren’t taking action, it simply delays the action from taking place.
the better approach in this situation, fam?
make a move.
somewhere along the way you’ve built a wall that keeps you from venturing outside of your comfort zone, exploring different-to-you perspectives + activities, + experiencing life with a curious attitude.
you find yourself second guessing your choices until analysis paralysis sets in + then you’re left doing nothing due to overstimulation, fear, + too much damn thinking.
feeling better about your life choices requires you to make choices, first.
you cannot know if something will work if you do not at least make an attempt doing it, fam.
your feelings, while valid, are not facts.
they are temporary + can be changed depending on whether you’re willing to change them.
changing the course of your life, altering your life experiences, will not always come to you as a pretty present wrapped in a bow with a card explaining how to do it or how it works.
in most cases, you’ve been given an unwrapped gift that lacks instructions on how to use it, yet it’s the very thing that you need + want + when used, will do exactly what you’re hoping for it to do.
you may feel a way about how it’s presented to you, but none of that shit changes the fact that when you use it, when you do something with it, you will experience life altering results.
the unmotivated feelings you have about using it due to its appearance doesn’t change the fact that it works — plainly put: your feelings aren’t facts, fam!
today, stop overanalyzing your reasons why you’re not making a choice + make a damn choice, fam — do something, anything about your situation!
you may not feel like doing much because you don’t like how something happened, or what that person said, or how something was presented + you know what?
none of that shit matters more than you actually committing your time, efforts, + energy into taking the necessary, intentional actions.
get out of your feelings + get into living one dope ass life!
the circumstances still don’t matter
+
neither do your excuses.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what needs to be done, fam? what steps are you taking to get it finished?