them extending an invitation to you to match their energy isn’t an invitation you have to accept.
especially when it’s not the energy you’re on.
you don’t have to accept anything less than what you deserve.
sure, people will do their fair share of gifting, might even beg + plead with you to take them up on their offer + you still ain’t gotta do it.
recall the people in your life that you have the utmost respect + reverence for —
the people who are kind, compassionate, + patient with you that you can’t help but to carefully watch your words + actions when interacting with them.
regardless of if you’re aware or not, you’re matching their energy.
they are kind.
they are compassionate.
they are patient.
in summation, they’re intentional with you + in turn, you are intentional with them.
channel that same energy within yourself.
be that person with whom people want to match energies, not because when you go low they wanna go lower, but because you vibrate so high that they want to reach that level of joy, peace, + acceptance.
you get to choose what type of energy you put out today.
everything in this world attracts + repels vibes.
(yes, even the energy of abundance is elusive to certain energy levels).
what do you want to attract, fam?
who do you want to show up as today?
be that person, bring that vibe, + match that energy.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
in moments when you match low energy, what is it that you really want from the interaction?
how can you meet that need without matching energy?