Author: Phylicia

what’s funny about us is that we are constantly chasing all of the dope things in life when really, the dope things in life are coming for us. impatience is a helluva drug, ainnit? so let’s do this today –instead of chasing down, searching for, or hoping for dope things to happen, let us simply…… Continue reading give life no other choice than to deliver this

those people who pluck on + irk your nerves are unknowingly presenting you with a huge opportunity, fam. they are offering you the opportunity to practice your patience. “i want patience, but not like this” is likely the phrase to part your lips when given this information, but hear this –i mean, you’ve been asking for more…… Continue reading give this to the people who pluck your nerves

there is no one consecutive moment where your thoughts are exactly the same. in one moment, you may be thinking about what you’ll eat for dinner, the next moment may be filled with memories of a recent outing with friends + family, all to fill your next moment thinking about how sloppy your handwriting has become over time.…… Continue reading passivity has never really served you, fam

to improve your future, you must learn + grow from the past. most importantly, you have to be honest with yourself about what’s happened in your life. objectivity is key, fam.look at what’s happened + pinpoint not the feelings you felt when something happened, but rather the facts of what happened. when you think about it, “sadly, the dog ate my…… Continue reading sadly, the dog ate my homework

whether you’re down bad or on top of your game, whether you are having challenging times or are cruising through life unfazed, whether you’re barely surviving or unapologetically thriving, one thing’s for certain: you are one dope human being, *|FNAME|*. sometimes, we must remind ourselves how much the situation + circumstances don’t matter by continuing to…… Continue reading life would never + you have to believe that

the challenging part about today is you don’t know what will happen. today will be full of surprises, fam. some surprises may induce laughter,some may remind us of past pains, some may disappoint us, while there may some that bring us joy + peace overflowing. the dope thing is that life, as unpredictable as it is,…… Continue reading surprise — life has something for you!

quick: someone you love dearly shares with you what they want to experience in life + it doesn’t align with what you want for yourself or even what you wish for them to experience. what do you do? do you offer well wishes + support?do you try to talk them out of their choice(s)? do…… Continue reading when others challenge your way of life, do this

go into today with conviction + commitment. do what you must, what is necessary, to live the life you want to experience.  intentional living doesn’t come to you by happenstance, fam. being intentional is an action + requires you to make a move.  now don’t get it twisted — doing what is necessary isn’t always…… Continue reading do what’s necessary