Author: Phylicia

what makes you extraordinary is that you don’t make the ordinary seem subpar. you give your best in all that you do. you’re intentional about the way you brush your teeth,get dressed + put on your shoes,+ greet + speak to others (just to name a few). you value the ordinary because you realize the details matter.…… Continue reading what makes you extraordinary is…

the best way to overcome your fears + your doubts is to do something about it. you fear what you don’t know because you haven’t experienced it before. rightfully, it may lead to some hesitation on your part to want act. do it anyway. the only way to it is through it. you can’t avoid taking…… Continue reading the best way to overcome your fears + your doubts

it’s one thing to be driven by purpose + passion. that type of work is fulfilling + brings about a pleasurable experience. it’s another thing to be driven by claims + expectations. there are claims that if you do this, then you’ll get that, but what does any of it matter if you fail to enjoy the entire…… Continue reading to be driven by claims + expectations

you wanting your circumstances + situation to be different than the current is much different than you actually doing something about it. wanting, wishing, hoping… those have their place. their place isn’t as a placeholder for commitment to action. here’s your daily reminder that this is your life, fam. accept what is + when you don’t…… Continue reading no one is asking you to end world hunger

what’s a plan without believing that you can execute it? it’s an empty promise to yourself is what it is. don’t find yourself so busy planning out all of these goals you want to accomplish in life + then … nothing.all that planning you’re doing for yourself won’t have a chance to become lived experiences until…… Continue reading it’s an empty promise to yourself

one of the reasons we say “i am…” when affirming ourselves is because it challenges the belief that our desire isn’t already a part of who we are. what’s for you is for you, fam. there’s no denying that, skirting around it, or refuting it. what you want in life is a part of the…… Continue reading one of the reasons we say “i am…”

are you blooming where you’ve been planted? is the soil fertile where you’ve decided to post up?are you attempting to flourish + are met with constant resistance? life can be hard but dammit — it doesn’t have to be that fuckin’ hard, fam. assess your environment. test the soil quality by cultivating it + in turn,…… Continue reading the easiest, most quickest way to stunt your growth is

say you had everything you desire right now, how would you act? what would you be doing right now? who would you share your space with? who would be in the know of your happenings? what exactly would you be thinking about yourself? about others? about the world around you? what if you acted like…… Continue reading how would you act? think about it.