Author: Phylicia

i wanna take the time out right now to applaud you, fam. it ain’t an easy decision to choose yourself. after all these years of forsaking who you are at your core to conform + feel included, you are finally stepping out of that comfort zone + embracing you fully + completely. that shit is beautiful…… Continue reading one word, three letters: wow

there’s no such thing as you being too old, too young, too inexperienced, or too qualified to start today. you are aged to perfection + whatever you decide to do right now is gonna be epic because you have everything you need to start. listen: these self-imposed labels ain’t doing you favors.worrying about what others may think…… Continue reading there’s no such thing

what you’re doing today could not have happened before this moment. you know why you didn’t act sooner? you weren’t ready then. you didn’t know what you know now. you weren’t willing to concentrate your efforts toward resolving the situation. you’re doing it now because it’s time — it’s your time, fam. past experiences + circumstances…… Continue reading feel damn good about it!

failure is a shit starter. think about it:the last time you failed at something, you knew in that moment you didn’t want to do whatever you did that particular way again, especially if it felt extremely disappointing. no way, nah.not, nope.ain’t doing that again. you not wanting to do that activity isn’t exactly starting shit,…… Continue reading celebrate the shit starter!

picture this: today is a blank canvas. you, fam, are an artist. every line + design you draw today represent your choices. what are you painting today? for starters, you can begin by painting your day with the end result in mind. every stroke (decision) you make is in complete alignment with who you are…… Continue reading for starters, you can…

hurting others won’t ease your pain. when you feel satisfaction in another’s pain, that feeling is temporary at best. you gain everything you’re looking for by moving forward, by forgiving. there’s nothing truly gained from watching another suffer. through forgiveness, you can acquire a fresh, new perspective. seeking revenge is no longer in the forefront of…… Continue reading an avenue worth exploring

when’s the last time you got excited about something? when is the last time you gave yourself permission look forward to an experience?when is the last time you truly enjoyed life? look around you, sis.be a kid in a candy store + explore everything you see. touch the flowers. 🌸 smell the grass. 🌾 observe an…… Continue reading you won’t get in trouble for…