Author: Phylicia

you could keep convincing yourself that you’ve run out of time or you can use the time that you have right now to do the things that must be done. you could keep wishing you were elsewhere doing something other than what you’re doing right nowor you can enjoy this moment, a moment which you…… Continue reading the “could haves” are not real, fam

here’s a little reassurance: you are doing awesome, fam. are you sure courage isn’t your middle name? because you haven’t let one obstacle stand in your way from living the life you’re choosing to live! with every decision you make, you are consciously + subconsciously trusting yourself.you won’t always get it the first time around,  you…… Continue reading here’s a little reassurance

purposefully getting uncomfortable in life sounds scary AF. why would anyone decide they’d like to experience uncomfortable when they can be comfortable? who would say, “you know what!? i’ll happily + willingly take the increased heartbeats, the sweaty palms, + venturing into the unknown over comfortability any day!”sounds foolish + anxiety filled, but lemme tell you:…… Continue reading let it turn your every which way but loose

imagine all of the tasks you can complete when you disregard your need for instant gratification. dope things take time. it’s unlikely that you’ll see the results you want right in this moment.in time, with consistency + steadfast efforts, you will see + experience what it is that your heart most desires. as Rome wasn’t…… Continue reading real quick — think about this

hold this moment in high regard + watch the magic that happens. the moment will feel unlike any moment you’ve ever experienced, fam. living a dope life starts with a simple thought.one has to embrace the concept that dopeness exists before they can experience it in its fullness. today, recognize your power to change the…… Continue reading living a dope life starts with this

however you expect yourself to act in a situation, do yourself a big one + act better than that expectation.it doesn’t take much to do a little more, fam.investing a tad bit more time + efforts into what you do can lend to extraordinary results.today, focus on the ways you can elevate your current actions: say ‘please’…… Continue reading small effort with big results

you’ve worked hard to get to where you are now, you’ve sacrificed much + despite the odds, you have done some really dope things, fam. you may not be exactly where you want to be + that’s okay.the feelings you have about your current situation + circumstances in life can still reflect gratefulness, excitement, + contentment. …… Continue reading it’s not this or that, it’s this + that!

someones inability to see the value you bring to this world is a “them” problem. all you can do is continue being you, doing what you doing, adding value to this world the only way you know how to do it. pretending like you’re someone else for others acceptance robs you of the opportunity to showcase…… Continue reading why do you think you’re here?