Author: Phylicia

when you feel like life is happening to you, not for you — take a minute of pause + remember all things are working for your highest good. when you feel overwhelmed + ready to give up –take a minute of pause + remember how far you’ve come, accept where you are now, + continue moving forward in the direction of…… Continue reading take a minute of pause + remember this

challenges aren’t designed to give you a hard time. though that can be the case when dealing with challenges, it serves a much greater purpose, fam. when you encounter challenges, it is the universe’s way of checking to see if you really want what you claim you want.think of challenges as a pulse checker, checking to see…… Continue reading the purpose of the challenge

if you had the opportunity to choose what life looks like for you beyond this point, what would you decide? who would be a prominent member of your circle?what causes would you support?what would you do daily?who +/or what places would you visit?what would be one of your goals you’d like to accomplish?what type of attitude…… Continue reading start living your future now

trust — having all the answers is not the answer. you think knowing every single thing there is to know about this world is a flex? knowing it all is where the learning stops + the value ends, fam.what more is there to know + do when you know + can do every thing? there’s no…… Continue reading a life most opposite of boring looks like this

how does one relish in the freedom of living life on your own terms? surely it isn’t by avoidance, fam. running away from your problems will wear you down.not only are you constantly on the run, but you also aren’t solving the problem giving it a chance to become even bigger. today, stop running.park it, put…… Continue reading you cannot outrun this forever. address it now.

understanding you + what you do isn’t a prerequisite for people to accept the moves you make. sure, folks may like to fully conceptualize who you are + what you’re about before supporting you, uplifting you, or following your vision, but it’s not necessary. today, don’t get discouraged by the naysayers + instead, focus on what…… Continue reading are misunderstandings slowing you down?

while there’s no such thing as “too soon”, there is a such thing as “too late”. it’s not what you’re thinking either, fam. “too late” isn’t about you deciding to take action right now.right now is the perfect time to start, start again, +/or start over. you know when it’s “too late” to do something?when you keep putting…… Continue reading is it “too soon” or much “too late”?

you may be concerned about some of the things you did in the past… well, don’t be too concerned, fam. today holds a unique, once in a lifetime opportunity for you.today, you can change the course of your life. sure, what you did in the past may impact some of what you may experience today.however, with…… Continue reading concerning yourself with your past mistakes

there is truly no other reason to match energy except to penalize someone else for their behavior. when someone is acting how we expect or want them to act + the love is reciprocated, it’s easy for us to flow with + match their energy.however, when others are giving us the blues by acting unbecoming…… Continue reading the reason you’re all about matching energy