Author: Phylicia

when you’re face-to-face with an obstacle, you have a few options to explore: go over it go around it go under it go through it don’t go anywhere + stare at it complain about it pretend you ain’t see it face defeat there’s some other shit you can do, too, but it all boils down…… Continue reading it’s not too late to see this for yourself

remember that time you tried to do what you said you wanted to do + it didn’t quite go as planned? well, fam — today is the day to try again. success isn’t linear + it isn’t some one off incident.it takes patience, practice, + persistence to achieve; to win. honestly, you have every reason to…… Continue reading do you have what it takes to win?

there are two types of instances that will occur today: in some instances, your choices are the primary cause for the moments you experience. in other instances, life will life + you’ll be fated to experience a certain moment in time. thankfully, in both instances you always have a choice.true, you may not always possess the ability…… Continue reading two types of instances that will occur today

have you ever tried to put your “why” into words + have failed to articulate your exact reasoning? while you may know within your heart that you must fulfill a certain task, you may find it difficult to find the words that best support your reasoning. not having all of the words to describe your “why”…… Continue reading when your “why” + your words don’t mix

in the spirit of giving, i ask you, fam: what gift will you give to your future self today?herein today lies an opportunity to give yourself the dopest gift you’ve have in this moment –your love your time your energy your focus your compassion your grace your understanding your positivity your optimism your listening ear your encouragement there is no other moment like the present to give your…… Continue reading the ultimate gift to give this season

you are more than your current mood + feelings. there’s no way you can reduce all of who you are into an adjective that describes your current state of being. beyond how you feel in this moment, beyond the mood you carry, you are the decision maker in your life.+ being that you are hdcic (head dope…… Continue reading more than a mood

in this season of giving, it’s accustomed by many to think of things they lack in order to receive what they don’t have. it’s not uncommon that you’ll find lists created by loved ones + perfect strangers that specify what we want, need, or cannot live without, + that we must receive on that one special day or risk…… Continue reading it’s difficult to gift these types of people

enjoy this moment in your life, fam. savor it fully + completely, + then let it go to make room for what you’re experiencing next, in this brand new moment in time. while you creep your way through life, time continues to move swiftly + unabashedly.why do you think being + remaining present is so important,…… Continue reading while you creep your way through life…