Author: Phylicia

deep down in your heart, you know love resides. you may have a hard time showing in your actions sometimes, but it’s definitely doing it’s best to seep out — when you pause before you speak, that’s love. when you cheer yourself + others on, that’s love. when you smile just because, that’s love. when you give yourself +…… Continue reading in the presence of love

sometimes you get the same energy you give to a person + sometimes you don’t. knowing that, will it change what you’re willing to give?you can’t control what other people do, fam.when they wanna act a certain way, no matter what they say to justify their behavior, it also has absolutely nothing to do with you.like you,…… Continue reading matching energy is a waste of time

how do you expect to have pearly whites when you neglect your teeth? you don’t brush them, you won’t floss, + you constantly are drinking teeth staining liquids. until you decide to put the effort into cleaning + maintaining your teeth, you will continue experiencing a dirty set of chops.  how do you expect to have…… Continue reading creating positive change in your life on purpose

want to know how to make possibilities your reality? want in on how to turn your dreams into day to day? or how to practice what you preach? well, here’s one way to start living life on your own terms today, fam:by incorporating discipline into your lifestyle. at the mere mention of the word “discipline”, you…… Continue reading bet that made you tense up, didn’t it?

truth be told, you’re carrying some heavy shit… unnecessarily at that. day in + day out you are weighing yourself down with all the guilt, shame, worry, anger, + distress you’re aimlessly carrying.no wonder your neck, your back, + every other part of you is screaming, “mercy, mercy me”!today, focus on packing light.bring with you today…… Continue reading the weight of the world is on your shoulders

you have all the time you need right now. you have all the resources you need to get started right here. you have all of the knowledge necessary to make a move tucked away in your brain in this moment. don’t for a second think that you cannot possibly get started, fam.instead of counting yourself out,…… Continue reading this is important, too

have you fallen behind or are things falling into place at its own timing? sure, it can feel like we’re moving at snail’s pace or at a standstill when life isn’t shifting + changing at our expected rate; however, that doesn’t mean that we are behind or not in sync with what is meant to be.…… Continue reading you’ve fallen behind — now what?

finding joy in each moment looks like: stubbing your toe + laughing at your reaction while hobbling around on one foot purchasing the incorrect ingredients + still making the dish work (you did that!) grieving the loss of a loved one + simultaneously smiling remembering them hunkering down in a cold blanket remembering it will keep you warm…… Continue reading life ain’t all bad, fam!