Author: Phylicia

taking inventory of your life + thinking about all of the things you wish you did can leave you sulking + sad. what’s even more regrettable is that on your death bed, you will look back on your past moments + ask yourself, “why didn’t i do it when i had the time?” you already know what you…… Continue reading when i had the time, why did i waste it?

learning a line dance can be challenging. there can be a lot of instructions to follow — move left when they say, “woo”,pause, two claps, then turn right,two steps forward while Bankhead bouncing,four steps back,turn around, kick, dip — but no matter how complex the moves may appear, if you’re brave enough to get out there on the…… Continue reading this dance: have you already learned how to do it?

it’s nice to work in a perfect environment, but it’s not necessary to get the work done. having a home office can make for a perfect workspace.having a walk-in closet can be perfect for storage + having a yard may be perfect for hosting a garden. but none of those conditions are a requirement for doing work…… Continue reading working in a perfect environment

creating opportunities for yourself requires you to see, validate, + act on the small details in your life. it may not mean much to you that you enjoy a warm beverage in the park every morning while striking up conversations to those passing by,  or that you reach out to people on their birthdays + other special…… Continue reading opportunities aren’t by happenstance

is today’s experience more joyful than any day you’ve experienced in times past? it’s up to you. are you still finding purpose in those perceived setbacks? it’s up to you. are you quick to forgive, giving yourself + others grace + space to learn + grow? it’s up to you. are you locking in +…… Continue reading your next move? it’s up to you

it’s a new day, fam. tomorrow has officially arrived. you’ve told yourself time + time again that you’d do what must be done another time…well here we are — new dawn, new day. what’s holding you back from starting right now?what else do you think you’ll need to get going? check this out: if you decide to start today,…… Continue reading tomorrow has officially arrived + it’s a new day

yesterday is done. gone.ain’t shit you can do about what happened in the past, fam. however, there is something you can do about what happens in the future.no, you can’t skip through time + determine what happens next. the predictability of your future is dependent on what happens today.i mean, we can’t know for sure what is…… Continue reading life beyond your past decisions

what is something that you can say today that will has a lasting positive impact on the world? what is something you can do today that will serve as a gift the world can enjoy in perpetuity? whatever we say + do carries weight, fam.the impact of our words + actions live well beyond their initial intended…… Continue reading there’s strong ancestral ties in what we say + do