Author: Phylicia

imagine, for a moment, that every thing you ever desired in your life instantly became yours. well, for starters thank God life didn’t play out that way because whew 😮‍💨 some of the shit we thought we wanted turned out to be, in hindsight, obviously not for us. can you count on your hands how many times you’ve been…… Continue reading protected from the perils of your own desires

every action you take today won’t always bring you the type of achievement you seek. hell, there are some actions you’ll take that will outright have you in a whole ‘nother stratosphere from where you want to be. don’t give up, fam.while every attempt you make today won’t hit, when capitalizing on an opportunity to live unabashedly you never ever…… Continue reading have you in a whole ‘nother stratosphere

the structure you seek isn’t found in routine, nor is it found in a schedule.this structure is found within your purpose.when you are purposeful, you know what needs to be done + are willing to do it no matter what it takes.when you are purposeful, you aren’t concerned with how much you get done in a…… Continue reading how to find the structure you seek

a situation changes. a stipulation changes.a menu changes.the world changes.the “it thing” changes.the rules change.minds change.hearts change.you, too, can, have, + will continue to change.from one moment to the next, you are slightly different than you were in the last.today, when you think of change, think of change as a gain. sometimes we’re so focused on what…… Continue reading as the world changes so do you

mold it anyway you see fit. shape it into what you desire. get creative + allow yourself the space to dream as big as you can. the future, your future, is up to you, fam. unfortunately, no one knows what your future holds. fortunately, no one knows what your future holds. instead of freaking out about…… Continue reading the uncertainty of tomorrow

are you using time to your advantage? are you intentional with your time?are you spending time acting out what aligns with your heart?are you using the time that you have now to get the experience you want to live? the opportunities + possibilities that today brings will cease to exist after today.there is no guarantee…… Continue reading how to use time to our advantage

let’s normalize jealousy + envy. + while we’re at it, let’s accept eye rolling as a valid response. this isn’t some attempt to be funny + apathetic, either.you’ve felt these feelings before, amirite fam? today, instead of beating yourself up over your initial response, feel your feelings.making a big deal about feeling one way or another isn’t necessary,…… Continue reading this one is for all the negative nancys out there