Author: Phylicia

we all have to start somewhere, fam. when we are figuring out where we want to go, how to proceed when we are knocked off our game, +/or what to do in moments of confusion, there is really only one way to move forward: start somewhere.you don’t need more time. you don’t need more money. you don’t even…… Continue reading every thing you can think of

the formula is simple: show up + do the work = achieve resultsachievement is a byproduct of the work, fam. notice the omission of words, adjectives, that describe what type of work you do –that’s not important because it’s subjective. let’s stick to the facts.the facts are when you show up in the present moment + do…… Continue reading the formula is simple

you can’t reverse the past. that opportunity you had then? it’s gone, fam. that’s nothing to be sad about, though. matter of fact, rejoice in knowing that something different is available to you today! now that you know what you want, you can make efforts today to get it. maybe you were unsure in times past on how…… Continue reading where you are standing right now

there’s a multitude of feelings that have arisen for you in the past as a result of failing. the act of failing can make one feel embarrassed, uneducated, disappointed, + overwhelmed. it can cause us to question who we are + what our purpose may be. the act of failing can send us flying off the rails in anger + frustration,…… Continue reading permanently packing up + pressing pause

attention fam, that’s … that’s it! that’s the word. attention. attention is something you deserve more of + i know the perfect person who can deliver it to you — you. give yourself some attention today. not scraps of time or what you have left over after a long ass day, either.  none of that. take time…… Continue reading it will sort itself out

give yourself a moment of pause. as of right now, in this moment, you have a clean slate.your job? doesn’t define you.your car, house, + other material possessions? don’t raise or lower your social status.you are you + that’s enough.that’s how today starts + that’s how today ends — with you being enough.who you used to be before…… Continue reading that person made a lasting impression on you

have you ever heard the phrase “you are a product of your environment”? albeit very challenging to do so in some cases, there are plenty of us who rise above our circumstances + go on to live the life we’ve always desired.rising above our circumstances doesn’t negate the fact that we were shaped by our past experiences +…… Continue reading isn’t that wonderful news?

give yourself the dopest gift today! you deserve the best, ya know? 😏 better yet, scratch that –make this gift a gift for all of us + don’t be stingy with it, either! 😝🤣 it’s quite a big ask, so i’m hoping you’re down for it…ok, okay… no more beating around the bush. the gift is you. give your whole self…… Continue reading the dopest gift you can give yourself