Author: Phylicia

there is beauty in complaining. no, it’s not the nagging, or the whining, or the eye rolling. it’s not even the hand gestures you use to illustrate your point or the lip smacking you do to emphasize moments of disappointment. the beauty is in the choices you can make in this moment.instead of complaining, you can choose another…… Continue reading the beauty in complaining

what you don’t have? who cares. what do you have right now, fam?focus on cultivating that. you were born a one of one.there’s no one on this earth who is exactly like you. your vision is uniquely yours.your talents + gifts are unlike another. your lifestyle, like your fingerprint, is extremely difficult to duplicate. use your…… Continue reading getting to know more of you

imagine what life looks like when everything you ever wished for came true. well two things are true, fam — 1) you have the power to make every one of your wishes come true.you hold a unique + specific power that places you in a position to achieve anything that you resolve to be yours, personal wishes included. 2) knowingly…… Continue reading being divinely protected against casual wishes

tap into the luxuries in life. take time for yourself today to do the things that make you feel good.you deserve a different experience than what you’ve been offering yourself lately.sure, you lotion your body daily, but are you deliberately soft with yourself + giving yourself a hand massage, a foot rub, a shoulder rub, + a…… Continue reading a not-so-foreign concept to embrace today

you may have a lot to boast about, you may have a full plate of activities lined up for the rest of the year, you may even have a teeny, tiny bit of time to pencil in some fun, but busy doesn’t measure how full of a life you have, fam.booked + busy isn’t an accomplishment…… Continue reading uplift the overall quality of your life

when you doubt yourself you’re not wrong, fam. your perception is your reality, so who is anyone to tell you you’re wrong?you are, however, putting yourself a huge disadvantage by not believing in your capabilities.here you are with the sauce, with everything you need to get the ball rolling, + you have the nerve to…… Continue reading you’re not wrong about your situation

do you wanna stand on business or waddle in regret? do you want to do what must be done or do you want to wish you did? do you want to be that dope person or do you wanna live in the illusion that you are + feel at any moment you may be found out?…… Continue reading at any moment, you may be found out

gratitude will take you far today, fam. have you taken the time to offer up thanks for this day? when in doubt, thank it out.the words you speak carry weight + posses the energy to change lives, yours included. say something that will uplift the energy around you. say something that will bring awareness to the goodness…… Continue reading it starts with a simple “thank you”