showing up in the most authentic way requires one to have sincere motives. sincerity is honesty you have with yourself, with others, + with life itself. moving with sincerity is moving with intention, with thoughtfulness, + without worry about the optics.you are speaking up when it’s tough, you are standing up even when your legs…… Continue reading you gain nothing from being nice, fam
Category: daily encouragement
living a life without any rules — does it make sense?
every place has it own set of rules — every family has their own house rules, every establishment has their own set of rules, every organization has their own set of rules, the government has its own set of rules, hell — you have your own set of rules (most of which are defined as boundaries). rules aren’t inherently good or bad, they simply are.they…… Continue reading living a life without any rules — does it make sense?
being in “control” isn’t always the answer
do you want the problem solved or do you want to continue complaining about it? do you want someone else to solve it or are you willing to take responsibility for it?the only way your problem will be solved is to solve it yourself.that looks like owning your part in the problem + deciding to do something…… Continue reading being in “control” isn’t always the answer
stop striving to have a better life
please, for the love of all things dope, stop striving to have a better life. you’ve set so many goals for yourself, each one requiring a significant amount of toiling, of hustling, of non-stop effort to make your life “better”. you’re wearin’ yourself out, fam.not only are you constantly in motion, striving hard + doing all of…… Continue reading stop striving to have a better life
you thought this mattered when it simply doesn’t
at this point, it doesn’t matter why you don’t take action. sitting around trying to figure out the root cause doesn’t change the fact that you aren’t taking action, it simply delays the action from taking place. the better approach in this situation, fam? make a move. somewhere along the way you’ve built a wall that keeps you…… Continue reading you thought this mattered when it simply doesn’t
you don’t need to be right
imagine waking up feeling content. all of your needs have been provided, abundance swarms you, + what you have is enough.in this moment, you have exactly what you need — every single thing. when you think you need something so bad that it hurts, it will avoid you.who or what wants to be in possession of the desperate?today, be…… Continue reading you don’t need to be right
one foot in front of the other
one foot in front of the other, keep going, + don’t look back. those words sound encouraging, but when you’re in the thick of shit they can sound like false positives –you know, the words that people say as fillers to inspire hope, yet our circumstances make it hard to process these as truths so we…… Continue reading one foot in front of the other
years of vitality come from doing this
fam, if you don’t get up + move your body today – you may be sore afterwards, but your body will thank you for it later. walk,jog, mime, run, exercise, jump, praise dance, spin, stretch, skip, or do the butterfly + heel toe combo — shit, roll around on the floor + shake all your…… Continue reading years of vitality come from doing this
can you give 30 minutes of your time?
for the next thirty minutes, give your task at hand your all. what? are you really about to say you ain’t got the time or the focus to do it? fam — claiming you’re living your best life means you actually give your best efforts, your best attitude, + your best self.it’s not a saying…… Continue reading can you give 30 minutes of your time?
the shit show stops ends here + now
hurting others doesn’t give you strength, walking around angry doesn’t justify hateful acts + speech, + controlling others doesn’t make you powerful. there isn’t anything advantageous about taking advantage of people, fam.extracting satisfaction from seeing others hurt, harmed, + checked for their behavior requires a heart check. society has programmed us to see the humor of misfortune.we…… Continue reading the shit show stops ends here + now