who cares what you could have had?
let that way of thinking stay exactly where it belongs: in the past.
none of that shit matters anyway, fam.
wanna know why?
because any opportunity that’s worthwhile is happening right now.
but what about my past mistakes + missed opportunities?
can’t i learn from them?
oh absolutely, you can!
the opportunity to learn from past mistakes + missed opportunities resides in the present, so no use harping on what could have happened if…
what can happen now?
don’t run your mind ragged thinking about “what if things were different…”.
you want change? cool.
what can you do today to make things different for yourself?
once you figure out what you are willing to do, take action.
wishing + hoping for your situation to change based on your past actions is stunting your growth.
right now is where the impact you wanna make happens.
it’s your time to shine, grow, learn, + make the difference you’re seeking — today!
so again: who cares what you could have had?
you have today, *|FNAME|*.
take the opportunity now while you have the chance.
be you, be dope!
Phylicia Sadsarin
Mindset Coach
journal prompt(s) for today:
what can you do today to make things different for yourself?