Author: Phylicia

it’s plain as day, fam: you have to be the change that you want to see in this world.  not everyone is interested in changing + you cannot make them do anything they don’t want to do.  accept people for who they are + if necessary, leave their asses where they are.  elevation is a…… Continue reading only for the elite 

you know how you’ll get further along on your chosen pathway? by taking small steps. the more often you take small steps, the further along you’ll be.because really, it’s not the size of the step that matters. it’s all about moving forward.consistency. showing up regardless of what’s going on around you. small progress is absolutely…… Continue reading get used to your cup overflowing 

there’s not enough preparation in this world that can prepare you for what’s coming your way, fam. does hearing that frighten you a li’l? it’s cool if it does. take a deep breath, relax, + go within.remind yourself that feelings are not who you are — they are how you feel. you are creative + have a…… Continue reading prepare for what’s coming your way 

picture this: it’s exactly a year from today — what are you doing with your time?where are you living?what’s your work routine? your rest routine?+ finally: what are you doing today to get you to this point? where you want to be requires willpower + every single moment of your life is a test of…… Continue reading don’t pretend like it’s no big deal 

there’s a time to act, + there’s a time to sat ‘cho ass down + do nothing. there’s a time to offer up some wise words, + there’s a time to simply listen. there’s a time to plan for it, + there’s a time to go with the flow. each of these actions are important in…… Continue reading important in their own right 

experiencing darkness isn’t all bad, fam. when you think about it, dope things happen in the darkness — babies are born  seeds germinate yes, even those picture perfect moments captured on film need to be developed in a darkroom when you’re going through some tough stuff, remember this: darkness cannot exist without the light. + guess…… Continue reading yes, even those picture perfect moments…

whatever they choose to do is on them + guess what? it’s doesn’t have to stop you from doing you. you have free will + your actions don’t have to be contingent upon what others may think, say, or do. people are going to talk regardless of what you choose to do with your life. they are entitled to their opinion…… Continue reading you’re pretty well-versed in the topic of…

get excited about today, fam! nah, this isn’t your typical day of the week. today is your day! routine doesn’t mean boring, sis. though you may be participating in the same activities you’ve done for quite a while now, this is a new day ainnit? today deserves a fresh take; a new outlook. though things appear the same,…… Continue reading for quite a while now