Author: Phylicia

you wanna know why worrying is a waste of time, fam? because instead of worrying, you can do something about what is worrying you. you may not be able to completely change your circumstances or situation right now + that’s not the point because — *say it with me* 🗣️ the situation +/or circumstances doesn’t matter! what matters is…… Continue reading where’s your head at right now?

first things first, we’re gonna stop labeling any of the time you take doing the activities you like to do “selfish”. there is nothing inherently wrong with enjoying your time here on earth, fam. quiet as kept, you’re likely at peak performance when you’re enjoying yourself.when you’re caught in the moment of enjoyment, you’re passionate, you’re…… Continue reading you want to be palatable — instead, be passionate

abundance isn’t about having a big ole house with a driveway full of cars, more land than you can tend to, + all the latest gadgets that are on the market. it’s not about your children having a toy box full of toys, or the family wearing all designer labels, or having a fridge +…… Continue reading do you have every single thing you want in life?

you’ll be hard pressed finding happiness, peace, love, or joy when you’re on the hunt for it. matter of fact, it will allude you simply off principle —  why would something so coveted want to settle down + manifest with the spirit of desperation? the way to receive what you’re looking for is to accept it…… Continue reading why you’re unable to find happiness right now

stop waiting for things to change + make a change. though we may not have control over the current circumstances or situations, we do have the power to choose differently.be brave,be bold, + be the change you’re looking for.whatever is causing you stress + anxiety, let the obligation you’ve placed on yourself to ‘keep it…… Continue reading you’re waiting for things to change. stop.

“they are being kind — what’s the motive?” “why did it have to rain/snow today?” “what did they mean by that exactly? sounds like a sneak diss” 🤔 “this moment feels too real, too good to be true.” don’t get stuck in your head, fam.moments are to be enjoyed, to be lived in — not overanalyzed. being…… Continue reading when your mind wanders, ask yourself this

the reason our doubts + fears become so powerful to the point of immobility is because of this: we give them way too much focus, care, + concern. they will literally suck the life source out of you, fam.that is, if you give them the time + energy to do it. today, place your focus elsewhere.concentrate…… Continue reading this is sucking the life out of you

in this world, only one thing can hold you back, fam: that’s you. you + you alone determine your comings + your goings.it’s you that decides whether you’ll pursue or pass on the opportunity. limitations, expectations, situations — all the things you believe to hold power over you — in the grand scheme of things, don’t matter…… Continue reading the only thing that can hold you back

thinking you should have, could have, or would have has you stuck in the past. what has happened cannot be changed, fam; however, there is something you can do about what you wish to change. transform your regrets into fuel for your goals.you still have today, you still have purpose, + it’s clear that you still…… Continue reading transform your regrets into this