Author: Phylicia

how do you hit a target? well, before anything else you aim for it. aiming for it requires direction. it doesn’t make sense to shoot your shot all willy nilly hoping that you hit your target. nah… that shit is not a go.  clarity, at the very least, will set you up for bigger success than…… Continue reading an uphill battle

is there a day or time when you’ve walked past a mirror + didn’t take a look at yourself? is there a day or time when you’ve walked past a mirror + didn’t take a look at yourself?whether intentionally or unintentionally, mirrors, windows, + even pools of water get a “who’s that girl?” look from me.it happens.what’s even…… Continue reading this doesn’t have to be complicated

pack light today. don’t feel tempted to bring yesterday’s burden’s into this beautiful day!say what? you’ve already brought them into today? release that shit.lighten your load + pack your essentials –peace.joy.abundance.grace.passion.laughter.boundaries.a giving spirit. the best part about this list is that everything serves duel purpose –use what you need + share them with others! these are the gifts that…… Continue reading lighten your load

your mind needs your help. it wants to confidently make a shift in a different direction, but it’s missing one thing: the confirmation of your follow through — it needs you to make some moves, sis. you know you can do this, right?  you can go to bed earlier. you can drink more water. you can speak…… Continue reading it needs you

don’t be so infatuated with the idea of failing that you fail to make a move. analysis paralysis isn’t the only thing keeping you from starting, sis — it’s your attitude about failure + success that’s got you stuck. go ‘head + put this in your mind: success is all i see.it doesn’t mean you…… Continue reading doesn’t hold the same weight

putting forth your best effort isn’t about achieving perfection. half-assing it? well that ain’t your best, either. so what is ‘doing your best’? enveloped with enthusiasm + passion, ‘doing your best’ looks like moving with intention + purpose, regardless of what happens. ’cause lemme share this with you: every outcome won’t be favorable, sis. doesn’t mean you…… Continue reading you aren’t trying…

you ain’t gotta force yourself to go with the flow when the flow ain’t flowing in the direction you wanna go. damn, that’s bars. 💯😂 no, but really: why do what everyone else is doing when it doesn’t feel right in your spirit? let them do them while you do you. this isn’t as easy as it…… Continue reading false sense of security

it’s not as far away as it seems. fulfillment is imminent. you wanna know the dopest part of it all? easy — the process. that’s where the “lemme tell you…” + the “it sounds outrageous, yet here we are…” stories are created. that’s where the learning takes place. that’s where the growth occurs. that’s where you find out…… Continue reading it sounds outrageous, yet here we are…