what’s the first thing you do when you hear the word “no”? a natural inclination is to raise a question, yet we’ve been programmed over the years to obey without questioning that we bite our tongues at the thought of it… follow your heart + open your mouth. fuck asking questions in your head or assuming you know the answer when…… Continue reading maybe they can’t help you…
Author: Phylicia
the podcast: seeing is believing (episode 1)
cheers to the first episode! Y’all — I fuckin’ did it. I’ve finally created a podcast for the community. Our self-titled podcast, dear dope chick™, is a weekly action-based podcast created to inspire and energize women to live life on their own terms, focusing on taking one small step at a time. And guess what?…… Continue reading the podcast: seeing is believing (episode 1)
under new management
yesterday is long gone, fam. accept that your life will never be the same again. that’s because today — today, you’re operating under new management. don’t get me wrong, you’re still you, but you’re different.today, you are walking with purpose.today, you are intentional in all that you do.today, you are finding joy + peace in any +…… Continue reading under new management
you’re all the way up!
starting over again isn’t conceding to defeat, it’s starting over. not reaching your initial goal isn’t accepting defeat, it’s valuable feedback regarding what you can work on to push yourself to even greater heights. receiving a “no” isn’t experiencing defeat, it means you now have the opportunity to receive a different offer that truly aligns with your heart’s…… Continue reading you’re all the way up!
at the same damn time
it is true: hardships, chaos, + misery can exist in life. you know what else is true? ease, peace, + joy also have a place in your life. where one resides, so resides the other. two things can + do exist at the same damn time *cue the instrumental* what magnifies the presence of which you desire…… Continue reading at the same damn time
now this is how you start the week!
get hype! let’s affirm the shit out of this week: affirmations for week 22 of 52 i create opportunities for myself wherever i go.i’m going all out — i’m living to my fullest potential!calm + peace overtake me with every breath i take.i extend care + love to each + every cell in my body.i believe what…… Continue reading now this is how you start the week!
hey you, energizer bunny!
your whole being, your whole essence, exudes created to be. to be what, you ask? to be authentically + unapologetically youto be still to be aliving vessel of love to be rested + at easeto be peace + joy personified to be however you decide to be. you don’t have to prove that you are worthy…… Continue reading hey you, energizer bunny!
be who you already are
dear dope chick: you’re tryna be who you already are. you’re already the shit. you’re already happiness, peace, joy, + freedom personified. you don’t have to prove your worth you’re worthy, already. you ain’t gotta convince anyone that you’re dope you were created for this. no proof is necessary, no validation required. what’s the wait?…… Continue reading be who you already are
the queen of doing shit your way
i know you — the epitome of dope, the queen of doing shit your way, the walking model of living life on your own terms, couldn’t care less about what “normally happens”. because what “normally happens” + what you’ve got going on today don’t even align. you transcend normalcy. creativity + ingenuity are your middle…… Continue reading the queen of doing shit your way
don’t drop that dream!
those dreams you’ve been dreaming all of your life — you know, the ones that keep you wondering, “what if?” the ones that, when they come to mind, bring you unexplainable joy the dreams that no matter how many days go by, you still feel those butterflies simply thinking about how you’d feel living it…… Continue reading don’t drop that dream!