Author: Phylicia

you think saving it all for later is securing your future, but it’s really doing the opposite, fam. hoarding the good shit is not the move. your gifts,your skills,your knowledge,your joy,your laughter,your growth,your finances,your time,your affection — everything good you have inside of you deserves freedom. it deserves a chance to be appreciated + shared. once shared,…… Continue reading hoarding the good shit!

this season of your life is unlike any other you’ve encountered. there’s been a calling placed on your life + it’s time you answered it. here’s a checklist of what you’ll need:first, you’ll need a clear vision. know where you’re going so that you know what steps to take + what skills to hone. speaking…… Continue reading you’re gonna need it!

don’t get wrapped up in the headspace of trying to prove yourself, fam; of tryin’ so hard to get others to agree with what you’ve got going on + shit… be yourself. you have nothing to prove to anyone!who you are is enough. can you choose to move differently?absolutely, anytime you choose. can you decide that you…… Continue reading tryin’ so hard

not gone lie to ya, fam: my day started a little rocky. about 5 minutes ago, i was on struggle.spilling water + shit.thoughts were flowing faster than my mouth could handle, so i was jumbling my words.tripped over some shit on the floor.arm sleeve got caught on the door handle 😩sis — what the fuck?i could feel the heat coming off…… Continue reading sis — what the fuck?

congratulations! 🎉 you’ve been granted a second chance today. here’s to another chance to choose!! 🥂 what you chose yesterday can be completely different than what you decide today, fam. can’t remember why you stopped something that put you on the course to being the dopest version of yourself? you have a second chance to…… Continue reading rarer than you think

here you are worried about whether or not the time is right, whole time the clock is still ticking.  chile, time is not worried about you worrying. it’s going to do what it do. will you follow suit? will you get out of your head,stop overanalyzing your next move,+go for it? will you have the…… Continue reading will you follow suit?

everything you decide to do makes a difference. the question lies in whether what you’re doing right now is making the difference you want to see.your intention + your impact must match. it’s not enough for you to think or assume what you’re doing right now makes sense for your situation.ask yourself: how are my…… Continue reading beyond the bare minimum