Author: Phylicia

not all people will respond to you positively, no matter what you do. you may have the best of intentions + do a radically dope deed, + still the person you did it for may not care about what was done (especially when the impact doesn’t match the intent).does that mean you callous your heart?does it…… Continue reading will you callous your heart?

imagine a person you deeply care for telling you that every little thing is gonna be all right. whether that person is a family member, a close friend, or Bob Marley himself, the sound of their voice with those encouraging words does something to your spirit. the cadence of their voice eases you,it comforts you, +…… Continue reading don’t worry about a thing

regret can cause deep hurt, anguish, + pain when we reflect on our past choices. it can feel like a knife to our guts when we decide not to follow it + have to sit with the discomfort of not acting. what we can’t do is to allow regret to kill us at our core, fam.there is…… Continue reading when regret cuts us down to the core

how many times have you said, “i’d love an opportunity to…” only to get the opportunity + you do absolutely nothing?it’s excuse after excuse –“where i am in my life right now, it’s too much to think about + try to do””it’s too soon after this (insert tragic/energy draining thing) happened, i have to wait””it’s more work than…… Continue reading i’d love the opportunity to…

no, this isn’t a scheme set up by Todd. by all accounts, it’s not even a setback.in fact, this is a setup — the ultimate setup, if you will.this is your opportunity to make it happen, fam.what was sent for your demise is met with a big surprise: all things are working for your good. so, let’s…… Continue reading it’s not a setback, but it’s def this

today, think about how good life is in this moment. you are breathing. you are smiling. you’re warm. your heart is full. you have joy overflowing. not only do you have exactly what you need in this moment, today is filled with countless opportunities + endless possibilities, fam.what more can you ask for?appreciation goes a long…… Continue reading how good life is in this moment

when you think of successful, it’s rare that the word “partnership” comes to mind. however, the recipe to success + achievement is built upon partnership, a coupling that relies heavily upon one another to make shift happen in our lives. on one side, we have thoughts +/or ideas.this is the vision behind the success that one experiences. on…… Continue reading the partnership you never knew you needed

when you say, “i don’t think i can”, you + no one else who values you actually believes that’s true. even if your skills aren’t up to par, you are capable… of learning. success doesn’t evade you because you aren’t good at anything — nah, that ain’t it.achievement doesn’t feel attainable because you aren’t willing. you aren’t willing to put in the work, you…… Continue reading no one actually believes that about you