Author: Phylicia

the structure you seek isn’t found in routine, nor is it found in a schedule.this structure is found within your purpose.when you are purposeful, you know what needs to be done + are willing to do it no matter what it takes.when you are purposeful, you aren’t concerned with how much you get done in a…… Continue reading how to find the structure you seek

a situation changes. a stipulation changes.a menu changes.the world changes.the “it thing” changes.the rules change.minds change.hearts change.you, too, can, have, + will continue to change.from one moment to the next, you are slightly different than you were in the last.today, when you think of change, think of change as a gain. sometimes we’re so focused on what…… Continue reading as the world changes so do you

mold it anyway you see fit. shape it into what you desire. get creative + allow yourself the space to dream as big as you can. the future, your future, is up to you, fam. unfortunately, no one knows what your future holds. fortunately, no one knows what your future holds. instead of freaking out about…… Continue reading the uncertainty of tomorrow

are you using time to your advantage? are you intentional with your time?are you spending time acting out what aligns with your heart?are you using the time that you have now to get the experience you want to live? the opportunities + possibilities that today brings will cease to exist after today.there is no guarantee…… Continue reading how to use time to our advantage

let’s normalize jealousy + envy. + while we’re at it, let’s accept eye rolling as a valid response. this isn’t some attempt to be funny + apathetic, either.you’ve felt these feelings before, amirite fam? today, instead of beating yourself up over your initial response, feel your feelings.making a big deal about feeling one way or another isn’t necessary,…… Continue reading this one is for all the negative nancys out there

like the sun will shine when it shines, a person will come around in their own time. you can’t force someone to do something they don’t want to do, + yes, that includes you, too.unless you are willing to a certain degree, you will find yourself sitting around + finding an excuse instead of doing what…… Continue reading now, why you rushing yourself through the day?

exercising honesty it’s not always easy, but it is absolutely necessary for a peaceful life. instead of skirting around the truth or fluffing your story with little white lies, take this approach instead:open yourself to peace + bask in the freedom that comes with being honest. every word you utter won’t be “facts” (especially when it comes…… Continue reading skirting around the truth with little white lies

doing your best is not a skill, it’s an attitude. therefore, don’t focus too much on what you think you’re capable of doing in terms of skills. quite frankly, your current skillset means little to nothing right now.  eventually, with a willing attitude, you will learn, you will build skill, + you will find great…… Continue reading doing your best requires no skill