Author: Phylicia

this message is usually reserved for the top of the year.  it’s not many people talking about it right now, but imma let you in on a life changing mindset you can adopt today:consider today your personal new year celebration.what do folks usually do for the new year?they make an effort to change the course of…… Continue reading a countdown to your personal new year

who you are now is a culmination of your past choices. who you will become is depending on the choices you make right now. who are you, fam? though you’re still learning, you’ve got some really useful information to pull from: your lived experiences.by now you have an inkling of what works for you + what you’d rather avoid…… Continue reading the beginning of a new era for you

mountains typically don’t go poppin’ up at random sites + times. they are a tale as old as time itself — they’ve been around + likely aren’t going anywhere anytime soon. today, when you encounter what seems like a mountain of a challenge, remind yourself that you are not alone in this — others have climbed this mountain before…… Continue reading what it takes to climb that mountain

to entertain or not to entertain, to commit, to persist, to denounce, to focus, to pivot, to explore, to ignore — these are all choices that are available to you right here, right now, fam. at any given moment, you are free to choose to do whatever you like.you can choose to act on instinct. you can…… Continue reading your ideas end here < your ideas are endless

you don’t have to bite your tongue, but perhaps you can use a different method in raising your concerns. today, when you find yourself wanting to criticize others or something, take a pause.take a beat. take a deep breath + regroup. no one is above criticism; however, we must evaluate what we are saying before we say it.is…… Continue reading is it helpful? is it harming you?

today, love yourself through the transition. you’ve never been here before,  you don’t know what to expect, + quite frankly, you don’t know how to behave. chastising yourself won’t get you far.in fact, coming for yourself when you simply don’t know is a surefire way for you to get into your head + start second…… Continue reading the type of love you deserve

you can infer based on the past, you can speculate, hypothesize, + you can assume all you’d like, yet you won’t know for sure what can or cannot happen until it happens. right now, you may only see what can go wrong.you may find yourself bargaining with God for a better outcome or worried about what…… Continue reading you know how to maneuver, adapt, + adjust

ever seen someone doing something you feel like anyone can do? anyone can change the oil in a car anyone can make a pizza anyone can deliver groceries anyone can organize an event anyone can volunteer in the community see that’s the thing: anyone can + not everyone will.there’s always someone out there willing to do the work that…… Continue reading the perfect way to keep the positive energy flowing