being in “control” isn’t always the answer

do you want the problem solved or do you want to continue complaining about it? do you want someone else to solve it or are you willing to take responsibility for it?the only way your problem will be solved is to solve it yourself.that looks like owning your part in the problem + deciding to do something…… Continue reading being in “control” isn’t always the answer

stop striving to have a better life

please, for the love of all things dope, stop striving to have a better life. you’ve set so many goals for yourself, each one requiring a significant amount of toiling, of hustling, of non-stop effort to make your life “better”. you’re wearin’ yourself out, fam.not only are you constantly in motion, striving hard + doing all of…… Continue reading stop striving to have a better life

you thought this mattered when it simply doesn’t

at this point, it doesn’t matter why you don’t take action. sitting around trying to figure out the root cause doesn’t change the fact that you aren’t taking action, it simply delays the action from taking place. the better approach in this situation, fam? make a move. somewhere along the way you’ve built a wall that keeps you…… Continue reading you thought this mattered when it simply doesn’t

the shit show stops ends here + now

hurting others doesn’t give you strength, walking around angry doesn’t justify hateful acts + speech, + controlling others doesn’t make you powerful. there isn’t anything advantageous about taking advantage of people, fam.extracting satisfaction from seeing others hurt, harmed, + checked for their behavior requires a heart check. society has programmed us to see the humor of misfortune.we…… Continue reading the shit show stops ends here + now

before today, you couldn’t do it

before today, you couldn’t do it. you didn’t have the time, the resources, the capacity, or the skills to perform the task. today holds a much different story with a drastically different ending.explore the opportunities you have today remembering how much your life story has changed. not only do you have time today, your position has…… Continue reading before today, you couldn’t do it